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Member Articles on Saying "No Thanks"

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njdrum, 41 M

7/16/2008 4:48 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Sometimes it not easy to say no thanks.
I think it's best to be yourself and to let people know where you stand. It's better to be up front then to lead someone ...
1    15    1    3.70    7/16/2008 4:48 pm   

beachboy002, 42 M

2/28/2008 2:25 am
10 Articles, Score 0.0
ok here is my view
saying no thanks is the opposite of saying yes please .....so when you say no thanks do you sometimes mean yes please but you gotta try harder? maybe not i dont know what i'm talking about i'm ...
0    6    0    0.00    2/28/2008 2:25 am   

WoryaII, 43 M

5/4/2007 3:08 pm
3 Articles, Score 0.0
No Thanks to you "I think"?
This is a very good question... Saying "no thanks" is pretty cut and dry yet it becomes very confusing(for instance ~Here~) when the party is started by the girl and she ~winks~ or puts you in her ...
2    20    12    2.09    5/4/2007 3:08 pm   

Dutch07, 36 M

4/29/2007 8:38 am
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino?
Do amicably break-ups exist?

Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted' with good advice from firends and ...
2    21    6    3.08    4/29/2007 8:38 am   

Tais_S, 39 F

3/21/2007 2:40 pm
7 Articles, Score 0.0
Why?
Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks". But very often the men accept these words as "Please, try again" and continue more ...
2    24    13    3.14    3/21/2007 2:40 pm   

georges43, 30 M

8/22/2006 6:16 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
talk
must be NO to listen for lie talk from woman , NOt to let your self as you are believe her talk ( or him talk ...
3    33    17    1.57    8/22/2006 6:16 am   

SirBri, 45 M

8/5/2006 1:29 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
Delete the message and move on...
Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them why you do not want them, just delete their message and move on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of someone who was ...
7    52    60    1.15    8/5/2006 1:29 pm   

GMan2002, 40 M

7/3/2006 8:16 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest!
I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to ...
5    66    37    4.17    7/3/2006 8:16 am   

QuartsOnCourts2, 31 M

5/30/2006 12:44 pm
10 Articles, Score 0.0
no
Just say no, forget the ...
6    51    34    0.63    5/30/2006 12:44 pm   

rjl4758, 51 M

5/11/2006 7:17 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Is there something wrong here?
I have recently been receiving alot of winks from asian ladies aged 18-19. They say they have read my profile so they have to know that I am 47 years. I have children older than these ladies. Do ...
8    73    40    1.56    5/11/2006 7:17 pm   

fitzer25, 28 M

5/8/2006 6:18 pm
6 Articles, Score 0.0
girls need to be straight up
girls when they don't have the connection to the guy they need to tell them straight up they are not interested. I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you think you have a ...
3    53    17    3.41    5/8/2006 6:18 pm   

papa_chubby, 41 M

3/16/2006 7:11 am
29 Articles, Score 0.0
Whats with not being direct
I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure out what their thinking. What is that about? ...
14    115    31    3.14    3/16/2006 7:11 am   

papa_chubby, 41 M

3/16/2006 7:09 am
29 Articles, Score 0.0
Sarcasm, sometimes not the same as wit!
Retract the challenge Then lie in wait!
Accumulating points planned just like fate
Mental reserves kept in iron tanks
Denver chalked up points while saying no ...
0    29    4    2.47    3/16/2006 7:09 am   

Denverhigh, 71 M

3/15/2006 3:47 pm
38 Articles, Score 0.0
No Thanks, Papa Chubby!
I am saying No Thanks to this race.
I bow to you. I have too much college homework that I have to turn in by Friday.
...
0    27    2    2.42    3/15/2006 3:47 pm   

papa_chubby, 41 M

3/10/2006 11:45 am
29 Articles, Score 0.0
sometimes no means more than no
Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO! Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told me, she didnt want him ...
3    80    14    3.30    3/10/2006 11:45 am   

8455, 34 M

9/27/2005 11:04 am
15 Articles, Score 0.0
The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks"
Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that time or times, and ...
8    255    39    3.48    9/27/2005 11:04 am   

BuenoX30, 34 M

9/9/2005 5:09 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Do the Right Thing
Ladies~ <br> If a guy does not interest you simply tell him thank you but you are not interested. By choosing not to answer calls you are leading him on and it is not helping either one ...
7    138    25    4.35    9/9/2005 5:09 pm   

SWEETY_GIRL2004, 28 F

6/23/2005 4:20 pm
15 Articles, Score 0.0
Thanks but "Not THanks"
Thinking about it before saying it and don't be rude... <br> If you immediately say, "no, we can't do that because..." people will perceive that as you are a "stopper" rather than a ...
6    223    29    3.14    6/23/2005 4:20 pm   

PELVAR2001, 45 M

5/28/2005 2:46 pm
2098 Articles, Score 0.0
I AM HAPPY WITH YOU AND WITHOUT YOU
After finalizing the rain of a winter that already finishes, the shadows withdraw and, appears the Sun again to my window; although with cold, still. <br> Then your memory wraps me and ...
0    219    13    3.48    5/28/2005 2:46 pm   

junkal40, 49 F

4/30/2005 10:34 am
2529 Articles, Score 0.0
How To Say No....
How To Say No To Alcohol and Other Drugs <br> Do you remember when someone else looked after nearly all your needs... When your parents chose your clothes... And watched while you ...
3    91    17    2.84    4/30/2005 10:34 am   

MistressM7, 27 F

3/12/2005 12:44 pm
1 Article, Score 0.0
Telling it like it is...
A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are also taught that people do ...
4    256    21    2.75    3/12/2005 12:44 pm   

PappiTito, 30 M

2/7/2005 1:24 pm
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Just say no!
Some people just can't take no for an answer. However, there are many ways to remedy this problem: 1. pepper spray 2. statement claiming v.d. 3. claim pre- or post-op transexuality 4. tell ...
3    194    17    2.28    2/7/2005 1:24 pm   

TonyMccoy, 50 M

9/4/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
RESPECT
Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately, everyone cannot be ...
3    122    20    6.06    9/4/2004 12:00 am   

Romantic4Ever, 29 M

4/26/2004 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
How to say no
First, be sure that you really want to say no. If you are not quite sure, tell the other person that you need time to think. Whatever the question may be, it is not worth disturbing your ...
1    94    46    6.39    4/26/2004 12:00 am   

lokie95, 40 M

4/11/2004 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen..
There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship. I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through. I know ...
1    256    51    6.39    4/11/2004 12:00 am   

Gryphin, 29 M

5/6/2002 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
¿Cuando decir no?
Muchas veces nos hemos llegado a preguntar hasta donde aceptar las cosas, sin llegar a tener problemas de ningyuna indole; la respuesta es sencilla, desde mi punto de vista podemos aceptar una ...
0    54    159    6.83    5/6/2002 12:00 am   

juwill,

5/1/2002 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
un masaje relajante
un dia ingrese mis datos a amigos.com. y recibi varios correos, escoji los de las mujeres que vivian en mi misma ciudad, luego de cruzar algunos email, logre contactar telefonicamente a tres ...
0    60    79    0.26    5/1/2002 12:00 am   

fanti, 59 F

9/21/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Despídete al menos
Creo que cuando se empieza una relación debe ser sincera.Si te ha gustado, por qué y esas cosas.Luego los emails se suceden con éxito y parece que todo funciona. Pero muchos dejan de escribir ...
1    55    191    6.94    9/21/2001 12:00 am   

COSTENNITA,

8/30/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
UNA PREGUNTA PUBLICA...
En nuestro país desde pequeños se nos enseña el valor de la vida, la familia y las costumbres, cosa que olvidamos cuando aprendemos a leer y vemos como poco a pocos las antiquisimas tradiciones se ...
0    61    79    7.78    8/30/2001 12:00 am   

arroba51, 48 M

5/4/2001 12:00 am
21 Articles, Score 0.0
MUY DIFICIL IDENTIFICAR
Tengo 45 años de edad. Lo lamentable de mi caso es que cada vez conozco menos a las mujeres. Sin embargo, espro algún día, realmente llegar a conocerlas. Pero en mi experiencia lo que si me queda ...
2    79    51    4.15    5/4/2001 12:00 am   

caminante53,

2001-05-01
Score 0.0

Había una vez un joven apuesto que se enamoró de un mensaje electrónico. Lo firmaba "chiquitina" y su contenido era de una lírica poética. Respondió el joven pensando que aquella chiquitina debía ser como una muñeca, frágil, dulce, bella. <br> Transcurrieron dos años en un ir y venir de mensajes enmarcados en suspiros y ensueños del joven. Ella se llamaba Sara y tenía 20 años. Poco más le había explicado de su vida y señas, pero no necesitaba más. Tánto le habían calado sus palabras. <br> Por fin, un día, decidieron encontrarse. Ella llevaría en la mano unos guantes negros. El la descubriría y llegaría hasta ella. Ella miraría sus ojos verdes y le reconocería. <br> Las doce. Café del Centro. Sentada en una mesa, Sara espera. Entra un joven de inquietos ojos verdes. Se acerca tembloroso a la mesa en que distingue unos guantes negros. Mira a Sara y un escalofrío recorre su cuerpo mientras recuerda su seudónimo "chiquitina". Como un relámpago piensa que debería haberse firmado "horripilina". Rojo de vergüenza por no saber cómo salir de la situación dice, con la voz más dulce de que fué capaz: ¿Eres Sara? <br> - No, gracias-, respondió ella mientras seguía con su café.
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Kurchaman,

4/26/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Si una persona no te interesa...
...lo mejor es decírselo claramente a la cara y decirle que como amigos bien, pero no como pareja. Eso puede crear algo de tensión, pero demuestra la sinceridad de una persona. ...
2    44    177    6.99    4/26/2001 12:00 am   

mp-gv, 27 F

4/16/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NO GRACIAS, ES PARTE DE TU VIDA QUE TE PUEDE AYUDAR
HOLA, SOY UNA CHICA DE 18 AÑOS DE MEXICO, LO QUE LES TENGO QUE CONTAR ES ALGO QUE LES PUEDE AYUDAR A MUCHOS JOVENES, SABEN A PESAR DE MI EDAD NUNCA HE TENIDO UN NOVIO, Y NO ES POR QUE NO QUIERA ...
1    27    69    6.42    4/16/2001 12:00 am   

caminante53, 61 F

4/13/2001 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Países desarrollados/Países subdesarrollados
A los pobladores de los países "desarrollados": <br> Decid "No gracias" en casos como: <br> - Os quieren vender una moto que no va ningún sitio Os quierencomer el coco ...
0    17    23    1.73    4/13/2001 12:00 am   

PILAR1, 45 F

4/12/2001 12:00 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
Es el amor de mi mejor amiga
Es un chico guapo, un abogado de éxito, un soltero de oro. Desde hace más de un año, mi mejor amiga, que está loquita por él y es guapísima, una chica muy llamativa, lo ve los fines de semana por ...
1    62    76    6.26    4/12/2001 12:00 am   

Kadir, 28 M

4/11/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NO PIERDAS LAS ESPERANZAS!!!
NO PIERDAS LAS <br> <br> <br> ESPERANZAS... <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> ...
0    110    71    5.40    4/11/2001 12:00 am   

EGORDITO,

3/16/2001 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
no a las drogas
al cumplir los 16 años de edad comence a frecuentar fiestas y mas fiestas y a tener nuevas experiencias , en una de esas fiestas conoci un grupo un poco mayor que yo, y la verdad que yo me sentia ...
0    35    19    4.31    3/16/2001 12:00 am   

huka,

3/15/2001 12:00 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
como decir no gracias.
me gustaria pedirles que me ayuden con el siguiente problema estaba en la casa de unos amigos, a los que yo no veia hacia ya 1 año, ya que ellos 2 se habian ido a hacer el servicio militar. yo me ...
0    39    50    3.76    3/15/2001 12:00 am   

raninasty,

3/15/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
DICIENDO TE AMO
DICIENDO TE AMO NO SON PALABRAS LAS QUE QUIERO ESCUCHAR DE TI NO, NO LO DIGAS PERO SI SOLAMENTE SUPIERAS CUAN FACIL SERIA MOSTRARME TUS SENTIMIENTOS MAS QUE PALABRAS TODO LO QUE ...
0    6    124    4.95    3/15/2001 12:00 am   

grendelprime, 39 M

3/13/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
No es no, son solo 2 palabras.
Se que no es nada facil decir que no. Hay hombres que creen que si dicen que no a algo(una relacionsexual ilicita, una aventura), se van a ver menos hombres, y hay mujeres que creen que van a ...
0    33    41    4.41    3/13/2001 12:00 am   

Janice_Olsen,

3/13/2001 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Cuando DEBES decir
Aunque parezca increible, hay personas que no saben cuando decir "no, gracias". En lo personal tengo dos pequeñas reglas que me han funcionado bastante bien: <br> 1. Cuando te obliguen, ...
0    24    56    7.48    3/13/2001 12:00 am   

FENNIXX, 28 M

3/8/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
no encuentro la persona .
hola soy un niño avwenturero peo no puedo encontrar a la persona para ser pareja de el so se pero he tenido experiencias originales aventuras locass y sienpre como que cometo alguna locura y es ...
0    71    50    0.00    3/8/2001 12:00 am   

priscila2001, 30 F

3/4/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Semplemente no
HACE MAS DE DOS AÑOS QUE ENTRE EN LA UNIVERSIDAD, CONOCI A UN MUCHACHO SUPER CHEVERE, NO TENIA UN FISICO TAN ATRACTIVO PERO ME GUSTO MUCHO SU MANERA DE PENSAR... Y A PARTE DE ESO ERA ...
0    14    19    1.01    3/4/2001 12:00 am   

arroba51, 48 M

3/2/2001 12:00 am
21 Articles, Score 0.0
Por fin, promesas cumplidas
Cuando estudiaba la secundaria cada 31 de diciembre me hacia una promesa: No andar más con prostitutas. Quiero decir aquellas mujeres a las que hay que pagarles para que se acuesten con uno. Pero ...
0    3    14    1.70    3/2/2001 12:00 am   

dragonmen,

3/2/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
diciendo no gracias no quiero estar sola esta noche quiero que estes conmigo
Estaba solo como casi todas las noches , pensando en mis cosas , bueno en los estudios de la universoidad, no me di cuenta cuando ingreso al boliche esa morena despampanante pero si la vi cuando ...
0    35    50    3.29    3/2/2001 12:00 am   

monnserrat,

3/2/2001 12:00 am
68 Articles, Score 0.0
cuando y como decir no gracias
No gracias lo decimos cuidasoamente y sin lastimar a la persona que se le dice, hay que ser caudalosa, , si una persona te dice que hagasalgo que tu realmente sientes que te ofende solo dile que ...
0    2    34    3.87    3/2/2001 12:00 am   

MurdocK25,

2/22/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Que si que no .. .
Que si. . . que no . . . Saben que? yo creo que a veces un silencio vale más que unmillón de palabras. . . <br> No se quien lo dijo pero, si se lo das a quien sepa escucharlote aseguro ...
0    37    14    5.86    2/22/2001 12:00 am   

Fran_xx,

2/22/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
A veces si, aveces no
Una vez sali de parranda con un primo mio. Tenia alrededor de 23 años trabajaba en una carpinteria que le dejaba un dinero para poderla pasarla bien o lo que el creia pasarla bien, era algo flaco, ...
0    50    33    7.00    2/22/2001 12:00 am   

andariego, M

2/13/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Cuando debes de decir no gracias.
Es importante que tomes en cuenta, que todos tus amigos, familiares te quieren y desean lo mejor para tí. pero ojo, hay quienes no quieren que tu felicidad se logre. esos no son amigos, `pues ...
0    52    41    2.14    2/13/2001 12:00 am   

alter-me,

2/8/2001 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
De como me pillaron
Hay quien piensa que las historias tienen un comienzo específico, esta no lo tiene. Desde que comencé mi sexualidad he sido promiscuo, pero nunca lo he aceptado. Mi físico me a ayudado a ...
0    31    64    0.18    2/8/2001 12:00 am   

juanjo5584, 52 M

1/27/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
ENGAÑOS
Estuve enamorado de una chica a quien llamaremos Adela, fué un impacto de primer momento y de gustarnos mutuamente, por las actividades de trabajo tratamos siempre de mantener nuestra relación ...
0    27    36    2.98    1/27/2001 12:00 am   

apasionante,

1/26/2001 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Cuando decir NO.
Nunca pensé que me vería en una situación similar. Ella era una chica a la que yo conocía desde algún tiempo antes. Siempre me había atraido sexualmente, pero a nivel peronal éramos bastante ...
0    7    57    1.90    1/26/2001 12:00 am   

tomy11,

1/25/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NO GRACIAS ¡¡¡¡¡ ES INDUDABLE ¡¡¡¡¡¡ ES UN ENGAÑO .
si la verdad quieren mejorias en el sitio no se este engañando y probocando perdidas de tiempo en un espacio que deve ser usado para cosas buenas, no (repito)engaños que solo llevan a mejorar los ...
0    45    26    4.32    1/25/2001 12:00 am   

jeannette39,

1/6/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Jamás debes permitir que te agredan
Desde mi experiencia personal, después de haber sufrido durante 5 años, los desmanes de una persona que se creía dueña del mundo y de las personas, quiero decirle a las mujeres que están viviendo ...
0    51    23    5.35    1/6/2001 12:00 am   

ZERO_CODE,

1/4/2001 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
PORQUE TIENES QUE DECIR YA
BUENO MI PROBLEMA FUE QUE DEJE MI ESPOSA PORQUE ME FUE INFIEL PERO A PASADO YA CASI UN ANO Y NO PUEDO OLVIDARLA Y SE ME AN ACERCADO OTRAS PERSONA PERO NO PUEDO VERLAS COMO PAREJA ME GUSTARIA SABER ...
0    1    71    0.00    1/4/2001 12:00 am   

sheriffgb,

1/3/2001 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
ME SALVO UNA PALABRA EL
Una palabra que tal vez se toma como insignificante y tonta es el no, eso yo lo pensaba, eso lo imaginaba;pero que tan importante puede ser. El dia 12 de marzo de 1997, me acuerdo bien, mis ...
0    28    82    7.48    1/3/2001 12:00 am   

PILAR1, 45 F

1/2/2001 12:00 am
9 Articles, Score 0.0
No des tu teléfono sin garantías
Recibí un mensaje de alguien que era encantador. A los dos meses de enviarnos e-mail me confesó estar casado -aunque yo decía claramente en mi perfil que huía de relaciones así-y aseguraba que su ...
0    24    367    0.67    1/2/2001 12:00 am   

Linda0782, 27 F

12/29/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
ES MEJOR DECIR NO....
UNO COMO MUJER ES MUY SENCIBLE A LAS PALABRAS DE LOS HOMBRES Y PUEDES SENTIR QUE ES VERDAD LO QUE DICEN, MAS MUCHAS DE LAS OCACIONES NO ES ASI...ELLOS BUSCAN TENER RELACIONES SEXUALES Y NADA MAS; ...
0    5    40    4.83    12/29/2000 12:00 am   

CENICIENTA23,

12/27/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
HE APRENDIDO!!!!!
He aprendido que hay personas que te aman pero no saben como expresarlo. <br> He aprendido que el dinero es una pesima forma de llevar un record. <br> He aprendido que mi mejor ...
0    6    31    5.83    12/27/2000 12:00 am   

sheco80,

12/27/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Cuando debes decir
Pues yo les aconsejo cuando;ustedes en particular a los jovenes porque tambien lo soy;decir no gracias es cuando ustedes las cosas se las describan muy bonitas y que no les digan consecunsia o ...
0    52    8    2.78    12/27/2000 12:00 am   

jotaro,

12/26/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Lugares no apropiados
Esto no lo debería contar, pero en fin... <br> A finales del semstre pasado tenía una novia, que por cierto hacía mucho rato que no tenía novio. <br> Bueno, entre besos y ...
0    54    58    2.63    12/26/2000 12:00 am   

santosmen, 26 M

12/25/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Cuando te ofrecen relaciones facil
Eso de tener relaciones faciles en la vida, es un aspecto delicado... yo creo que cuando te dan eso con facilidad hay algo complicado detras de ello... puedes aprovecharte de eso pero puedes ...
0    27    35    5.18    12/25/2000 12:00 am   

Adanwalter, 49 M

12/24/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Mi patrimonio moral es lo màs grande que tengo
Hola: Mira la vida esta llena de tentaciones, y estas son provocadas por el propio hombre, lamentablemente hay muchas personas que son debìles, y ràpidamente se someten a los coqueteos de la ...
0    18    17    5.67    12/24/2000 12:00 am   

yulina,

12/21/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
LO AMO PERO ES UN DON JUAN..... ES QUE ES UN PRINCIPE!!!!!!
EL ES UN CHICO SUPER GUAPO.... PERO LO UNICO QUE BUSCA EN ENA MUJER ES DIVERSION, NO ES QUE YO SEA ABURRIDA SI NO QUE SI PASA ALGO CON EL, YO SE QUE EL VA JUGAR, COMO LO HACE CON TODAS. EL ME MIRA ...
0    59    16    0.00    12/21/2000 12:00 am   

lemah, 34 F

12/17/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
La vida secreta de un hombre casado
Cuando pensamos en las relaciones ideales, siempre decimos que no nos embacariamos en la relación con un hombre casado. Pero desafortunadamente la vida da muchas vueltas y aquello que alguna vez ...
0    77    73    5.77    12/17/2000 12:00 am   

laurysfeliz, 39 F

12/15/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
¡Tú eres importante!
Algunas personas tendemos a tratar de agradar a los demás, complaciendo a nuestra familia, a nuestros jefes, a nuestros amigos y sobre todo a nuestra pareja; dejando a un lado nuestros propio ...
0    70    25    2.91    12/15/2000 12:00 am   

bianca34,

12/5/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Espera,,,todavia no le conocez.
En una experiencia muy personal, aprendi que antes de sincerarte a un nuevo amigo o amiga, debes de dejar pasar un cierto tiempo que te permita conocer los valores de esa persona. Muchas veces en ...
0    35    38    5.64    12/5/2000 12:00 am   

gil_2000,

12/5/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
como decir no
yo soy un amigo que se me hace muy feo decir que no a mis amigos y muchas veces quedo mal con ellos y no se que hacer....... ...
0    54    15    0.00    12/5/2000 12:00 am   

TABASCO2000,

12/3/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
¿saber escuchar a las personas?
Hola bunas noches al club de "Amigos.Com" <br> Antes que nada quiero FELICITARLOS por su gran trabajohacia los amigos de toda la red. de internet. su pagina perfecta. <br> mi ...
0    0    15    0.53    12/3/2000 12:00 am   

pitagoras99_,

11/30/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
hauto respeto
uno debe de decir que no primero cunado lo propuesto es algo que ba encontra de nosostros mismos y nos falta alrespeto como podemos agradarle a las otars personas cuando no nos damos a respetar ...
0    11    11    0.00    11/30/2000 12:00 am   

rictv,

11/17/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
Una noche en el paraíso...
Es increíble como las cosas cambian, apenas el día anterior sufriamos un "ataque" masivo de las máquinas de producción que nos hacían suponer una terrible venganza por días de asueto anteriores... ...
0    27    38    0.00    11/17/2000 12:00 am   

DEMONICA, 30 F

11/14/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Amigos
<br> <br> Parece que todos buscamso un buen amigo, pero te has puesto a pensar que lo podras conseguir. <br> Es dificil saberlo ya que un buen amigos se hase conversando, ...
0    91    20    1.47    11/14/2000 12:00 am   

ice69_mx, 47 M

11/3/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
CUANDO DEBES DECIR NO GRACIAS ¡
HOLA¡ES COMPLICADO EMPESAR ESTE TEMA PERO BUENO DEBEMOS ABORDARLO DE LA MEJOR MANERA¡ CUANDO DEBEMOS DECIR NO? EN UNA SITUACION QUE DESDE UN PENTO DE VISTA PUEDE SER ABLIGADA LA RESPUESTA SI, ...
0    56    80    2.52    11/3/2000 12:00 am   

22navegante22, M

10/30/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
el engaño de las mas jovenes
cuando una mujer tiene de 12 a17 esta expuesta a muchas cosas es mas fasil vacilarle lo digo porque yo alguna vez lo hise tambien y ahora ya soy un poco mas maduro como para ...
0    33    47    2.17    10/30/2000 12:00 am   

evy38, 40 F

10/22/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Decir
En varias de las conversaciones con jovenes.En la actualidad se les dificulta el decir "no gracias" a las propuestas indecorosas y sexuales de sus amigos. El ritmo de vida que llevan los ...
0    15    8    2.09    10/22/2000 12:00 am   

RENTON_22, 31 M

10/22/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
AUN NO MAS TARDE
YO CREO QUE NO ES NECESARIO ESTAR DICIENDO QUE NO A TODO EL MUNDO, COMO POR EJEMPLO EN EL CASO DE LAS DROGAS. CUANDO TE INVITEN DROGAS TU SOLO DI AUN NO MAS TARDE O SINO DESPUES ES MUY TEMPRANO ...
0    19    12    0.68    10/22/2000 12:00 am   

thoraway, M

10/20/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
¿Por qué dicen
Una chica de mi ciudad me escribe diciéndome que ha visto mi página Web, que le gusta el Manga, y que qué bien que soy de su ciudad. Después de unos mails, la digo que si quiere podemos quedar ...
0    65    8    3.01    10/20/2000 12:00 am   

mialaura3, 55 F

10/18/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
para un amor gitano
My Lost Gipsy Amor gitano, tu que no lograste despedirte y dejaste muchosrecado sin respuestas, tu que recojiste la botella en el mar de los solitarios para burlarte lo unico que lograste es ...
0    32    9    3.43    10/18/2000 12:00 am   

PEPERESNICE, 28 M

10/6/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NO TODOS LOS AMIGOS SON REALES
CREO Y ESTOY, CASI SEGURO, QUE UNA DE LAS COSAS MA DOLOROSAS ES CUANDO SIENTES QUE TINES UN(A) AMIGO(a) CON EL CUAL COMPARTIAS COSAS QUE NUNCA HABIAS HECHO. TE DABA CONFINZA Y TU SE LA DABAS ...
0    123    18    5.72    10/6/2000 12:00 am   

ENER,

10/2/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NUNCA DIGAS TE AMO
EN OCACIONES NOS TOPAMOS CON GENTE QUE NO CONOCEMOS PERO AL VER A SUS OJOS SABEMOS QUE ESA PERSONA VA HACER ALGUIEN ESPECIAL EN NUESTRA VIDA. NUNCA SABEMOS LO QUE ESAS PERSONAS PODRAN DEJARNOS. ...
0    6    85    6.54    10/2/2000 12:00 am   

gemelius,

10/1/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
CONTRADICCION
Sucede que se presentan situaciones vitalmente contradictorias, frente a las cuales la voluntad se inclina por la aceptación, pero su efecto es nocivo. Lo más duro es decir NO GRACIAS . Lo dices, ...
0    261    3    2.45    10/1/2000 12:00 am   

kitty7,

9/28/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Aprende a decir que no
Muchas veces por el simple hecho de que queremos quedar bien con los demás o simplemente tenemos una leve inseguridad no nos atrevemos a decir que no. La mayoria de las personas nos ofrecen cosas ...
0    16    19    4.57    9/28/2000 12:00 am   

Galaxy_M42,

9/28/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Razones
Siempre supe que eras especial, pero cuando te vi bailar, aquella noche en el escenario, comprendí, con una mezcla de dolor y alegría, que mi amor por ti era mas pequeño de lo que creía, que tu ...
0    1    9    2.14    9/28/2000 12:00 am   

concertista,

9/21/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Gracias, no quiero mas de lo mismo
No gracias, durante dos años y medio te di de todo lo mejor; lo que estaba a mi alcance. Di dignidad y categoria a tu vida, desaparecistes sin decir nada y ahora quieres aparentar que no pasa ...
0    1    16    4.16    9/21/2000 12:00 am   

xgiguy,

5/18/2000 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
Turning responses into friendship, not romance
Over a period of time, I have received numerous E-mail responsesto my ad. Some of them were terrific matches and some were not I try to treat each and every one with respect and answer every one. ...
0    48    64    5.37    5/18/2000 12:00 am   

cindy2u2,

4/27/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Cyber Break Up Letter
Dear [insert screen name here] (if that is your real name), I regret to inform you that, under a plan for the periodic removal of unpleasantness from my life, I must terminate our ...
0    46    41    2.77    4/27/2000 12:00 am   

SolarEclpse00,

4/21/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
What do you mean No?
This incident just happened to my cousin recently. She was out on a date with a guy she just met, and after being out awhile they went back to her place. Just as things started to get "hot and ...
0    27    49    5.14    4/21/2000 12:00 am   

1merboy,

4/21/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
When and why to say no!
<br> You are in control of your own destiny. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Every ones view of sex and sexuality differs, but one thing is the same: ...
0    275    34    4.50    4/21/2000 12:00 am   

summerdov,

4/17/2000 12:00 am
8 Articles, Score 0.0
Jack and Jill
jack and jill <br> jack and jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water. jill forgot to take the pill, so now they have a daughter! <br> ...
0    25    27    1.87    4/17/2000 12:00 am   

Kim_Love,

4/14/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Sex...it's all about being an adult...
Sex is a big deal...so we hear from everyone around us nowadays. The age old questions of 'How young is too young?' and 'Yes or no?' come up on a more than regular basis. The question people ...
0    35    64    4.34    4/14/2000 12:00 am   

gstorm66,

4/14/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Show a little respect for your peers
I just started doing the internet meeting people thing a month or so ago, and it has been rather interesting at times. I've had the oppportunity to meet up with a few of the people I've talked to ...
0    30    43    7.09    4/14/2000 12:00 am   

kemee,

4/7/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
How to say
First of all let me start out by mentioning that I am a 39 year old black female totally heterosexual. <br> I had been on line for a week, a person Emailed me and told me how much they ...
0    27    54    6.93    4/7/2000 12:00 am   

nasi1,

4/3/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I miss you..
I miss you I know we`ve said our goodbyes and I know we`ve gone our separate ways, but I still miss you I wish that peaple were like chalkboards, and we could wash our memories clean. ...
0    23    55    6.07    4/3/2000 12:00 am   

Comix25,

3/27/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
When to be wary of meeting that special someone.
Even though you have found that special "someone" on the net and you think you know all you need to know about him/her, please keep safety in mind. <br> 1) Remember, you do not really ...
1    25    36    6.60    3/27/2000 12:00 am   

MickeyCK19,

3/26/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
When to say no
I just finished reading an article talking about why to say no. It was talking about the vaious diseases one can get by having sex. It is a valid view but narrow in scope. <br> My view ...
0    1    18    5.31    3/26/2000 12:00 am   

brazilfriend,

3/25/2000 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Tender is the night
We had a special dinner at a very fancy restaurant that evening. The love of my life came late to pick me up and was "rushy", told me how many things he would have to do on the next morning.I gave ...
0    115    16    3.86    3/25/2000 12:00 am   

Pamela655,

3/22/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
When you want to say yes but you got to say no!
Sometimes saying no is a matter of self respect and keeping a committment to yourself. I made the decision to save sex until after marriage because my personal and my religious beliefs both ...
0    42    33    4.98    3/22/2000 12:00 am   

GoddessCortese,

3/21/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying NO! is like Saying GOODBYE!
<br> How many of you women out there have liked a guy, went out and when it came down to doin the dirty, said no and ever saw the guy again? Well I would imagine few. I believe it comes ...
0    16    25    5.68    3/21/2000 12:00 am   

hereigoagain,

3/20/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Physical attraction..the hardest thing about internet matchmaking
I think people are dishonest if we say "looks do not matter." OF COURSE they matter. It is hard when you make a somewhat close emotional connection (as is easy to do when using a keyboard), but ...
0    26    59    7.87    3/20/2000 12:00 am   

specialbabe,

3/18/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Cyber bye-byes
There is nothing like being rejected, the coldness and emptiness of being trashed - but worse still is being sent to the eternal cyber trash can. Like being left suspended in space. That's the ...
0    19    43    5.96    3/18/2000 12:00 am   

puudenpup1,

3/17/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
let your mind be your driver
Oh, my heart has it's reasons I can't say that it's right. It wants me to do things . The actions arn't always right. It has it's own rythem It has it's own beat It want of me action ...
0    7    11    2.23    3/17/2000 12:00 am   

SuperMax31,

3/17/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
How to Handle Loads of Mail
I write that article to answer one happy man who receives heaps of love letters from three quality ladies at a time. Man, you really do have a problem, but that's not of a kind you cannot solve. ...
0    28    26    6.15    3/17/2000 12:00 am   

VAMPERESS,

3/10/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
In The Shadows
Meet me in the shadows Beneath a bright new moon Hold me in your loving gaze Tell me the night's in bloom Whisper promises in the dark Say what I want to hear Open your heart and love me ...
0    26    12    1.74    3/10/2000 12:00 am   

yemi122,

3/7/2000 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
When to say NO!
Sometimes in a relationship you just can't say no to the one that you love. Well I found out that once you get into the habit of doing that, things can take a turn for the worst. This isn't really ...
0    64    29    3.94    3/7/2000 12:00 am   

scorpioeyes,

3/4/2000 12:00 am
4 Articles, Score 0.0
Will you regret this in the morning ?
After a couple of awkward internet dates I finally found a nice lady to share some good times with. We were both lonely and seemed to hit it off in our letters. After the first date we just kissed ...
0    0    73    7.63    3/4/2000 12:00 am   

feb2,

2/27/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Too soon?
When your date wants to take you home or whatever funny thing. Please say no or you might end up as his or her prey... even though the former is unlikely. Even though no matter how much you ...
0    39    49    5.48    2/27/2000 12:00 am   

nicewoman36,

2/26/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
What's inside...
Saw the most wonderful man here tonight. Handsome, great smile, good job, lives in a nice city, seems to have everything going. Then, in his "who I am" write up he began to talk about his personal ...
0    19    17    4.54    2/26/2000 12:00 am   

peachstategirl,

2/20/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Disappearing Acts
Anonymity is no excuse for being rude. Unfortunately, many people (both male and female) seem to think that it's o.k. to just disappear suddenly from the "getting to know you" stage of a ...
0    18    79    7.51    2/20/2000 12:00 am   

xgiguy,

2/18/2000 12:00 am
5 Articles, Score 0.0
It's a matter of respect!
When the e-mail arrives in your box with a request for correspondace, don't just delete it and trash it. Take a moment or two to tell the person you are no longer interested, busy, or what ever, ...
0    21    45    6.01    2/18/2000 12:00 am   

erh384,

2/18/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
I have said
Abstinance is the best policy-- not what I think. Just postponment. I have made a promise to myself to wait until I am ready. The pressure on teens today from the media, peers, etc. to have sex ...
0    46    13    4.82    2/18/2000 12:00 am   

memphogrrl,

2/17/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Saying what you mean.
If you go out with someone, and find that you don't really want the same things. Go ahead and be upfront with them about it before they get too emotionally involved. It isn't fair to continue a ...
0    18    11    4.29    2/17/2000 12:00 am   

Kaykee,

1/23/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Response to
Hi all, <br> The advice (if you will) that I would give to "More ResponsesThan You Can Handle" is a couple of things. I think one key ingredient is communication. Are any of ...
0    45    8    4.41    1/23/2000 12:00 am   

Merlyn2,

1/18/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Let's Put it in Context
Saying "No, thanks". Two little words, yet they can generate so much angst in the "dumpee" and occasionally guilt in the "dumper". It's understandable, yet in a way so unnecessary. <br> ...
0    38    14    5.54    1/18/2000 12:00 am   

ESILIO,

1/13/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
when yes maybe means no?
hellomy name is esilio. being new to this system. i am finding it pretty lame some of the excuses (or lack there of) when you think you have found someone suitable. nw i am not petty but when ...
0    28    14    3.46    1/13/2000 12:00 am   

mscadd,

1/12/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
More responses than you can handle?
More responses than you can handle? I?ve run into a sticky situation recently. I had sent E-mailmessages to several ladies at once. Nothing particularly exciting, provocative or ?deep?, just ...
0    0    17    2.98    1/12/2000 12:00 am   

Skrecok,

1/10/2000 12:00 am
3 Articles, Score 0.0
Honesty is the best policy
Honesty is the best policy, but it should be tempered with kindness. I have written to many people via email, who after a few mails seemed to drop off the face of the earth. They did not bother to ...
0    53    23    6.51    1/10/2000 12:00 am   

Ravage2000,

1/9/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
It Shouldn't Affect Your Life
I think that if you or your date says no in the course of the date or relationship, that it shouldn't really have that much effect on it.Just cause they said no doesn't mean your life is going to ...
0    0    7    2.53    1/9/2000 12:00 am   

DrAquarius,

1/3/2000 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Why You Should Say No to Sex
I hope the following information will help you make wiser choices when it comes to sexual contact. Each time you choose sexual contact with a new partner you significantly increase your chance of ...
0    22    51    4.94    1/3/2000 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

12/10/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Didnt even say good bye
Well it starts like this...I chated with this female in San Fransisco for quite a while.Then she gave me her phone number.We talked alot,got to know each other fairly well.I told her to come by my ...
0    31    16    4.74    12/10/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

1999-12-04
Score 0.0

A few months back I joined friendfinder and I wrote to a couple of profiles that made me feel something. I wanted to get to know someone in a far away place so that I might have the excuse to travel in the future so I chose men from the United Kingdom a place I had always wanted to visit. I thought that at least I might find a great pen pal who could tell me things about his country as well as getting to know him. The first week of my membership I met a man in the age group that I was interested in and I will call him Bob. Now Bob and I hit it off right from the start and soon our letters were on a very personel level ,writting many times a day. Soon we were chatting on Yahoo Messenger just like two teenagers falling in love for the first time. Then the cyber sex began to creep in. I said no and like a fox he made his move in another direction and before I would know it there would be something sexual going on. Now if that is what both parties are interested in then go for it but in my case it only served to frustrate me more with him getting just what he was after. This went on for sometime and because I thought I really liked him I relented and engaged in what I thought would make him happy. But we were never talking about the things that had drawed me to him in the first place, the relationship had become CYBERED and I tried a couple of times to guide it back into the right direction. Like I said if it is what you both are looking for then that is fine but if you don't feel right about it just say no! Why go to bed confused and frustrated while he is on his end sleeping like a baby with a smile on his face.
                1999-12-04   

GUEST USER,

12/2/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
It makes you wonder...
I went to Prague on holiday all by myself. It was the first time and it was very exciting. On my way there the people around me were just talking the Tsjech language so it made no sense to me at all. ...
0    36    7    2.53    12/2/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

12/2/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Hearing back from someone you said "No Thanks" to
I have written to guys after I looked at their photo and realized immediately that he didn't "do it" for me; I've written to them and said "No Thanks," only to hear back from them that I am terrible ...
0    32    28    3.55    12/2/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/30/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
hot like the sun and wet like the rain
hello from turkiye if u wanna good ant the best friend he's not very far away just under your finfers just write to me see u soon kisses ...
0    49    3    1.47    11/30/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/28/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Guys...just be honest with her...
I just wanted to ad to the topic of "Saying No Thanks". First of all, lets face it, even with using a service like Friendfinder, dating is NOT an exact science. Sometimes you are going to meet ...
0    33    19    6.29    11/28/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/23/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
saying ohh no!
How do we say ohh no to someone? How do we say no when we really mean ohh yes yes? Sometimes we really want people to talk, to visit, to share things with us. So truy saying yes ohh ...
0    29    7    2.02    11/23/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/14/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
A Welcome No
We live in a busy world but does that mean the concept of common courtesy has to be sacrificed? It seems to be the case,maybe the annomity of the net contributes to it. A brief message takes ...
0    31    4    4.80    11/14/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/10/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
It hurt a lot
I went on a date with a man that I met on line. He took me out for dinner, drinks, coffee, and more drinks. We spent five hours together and he told me he didn't want the date to end. We kissed ...
0    23    7    3.55    11/10/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

11/9/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
just say no
i was on my 3 date with this really cool guy while we went back to his place his parents were out of town we were just going to talk and then we started makeing out while then he was undoing my shirt ...
0    20    3    4.41    11/9/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

9/18/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Which one could it be?*!
I've always been told to be very careful while on the internet.Then I found out about friend finder.com....I was so excited yet afraid.I met several different people that seemed absulutly ...
0    0    10    1.99    9/18/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

7/22/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying 'NO' can be as easy as saying YES
Saying NO can be easyer than saying YES It's easy to say yes to things,but when it comes down to saying NO how many of us can openly say we could do it without any hesitation. Sex is one of ...
0    33    13    3.81    7/22/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

5/31/1999 12:00 am
2 Articles, Score 0.0
saying no, somwone's gotta do it
Saying no is hard, but someone’s got to do it. That’s where you come in. I’m writing this to tell you that it is ok to say no. If you are with someone that is pushing you to so something that you ...
0    55    0    0.00    5/31/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

5/10/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
At least say " No Thanks"
So you finally find the person who you think could be interesting. You've been searching the lists and checking each bio to make sure they are at least somewhat compatible and in some cases you ...
0    52    6    5.07    5/10/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/28/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I didn't think it was a crime
This story is going to be hard for me to tell. If it hasn’t happened to you, it’s happened to someone you know, even if you don’t know that it’s happened. I started dating my ex, Thomas, in ...
0    29    3    4.41    4/28/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/25/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
I don't understand why people find it so hard to say "no".
i might be a little close-minded, but i don't see the difficulty in saying "no" to someone of the oppisite sex. I think it's all about self-respect. If you have enough self-respect, you won't let ...
0    50    5    4.45    4/25/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/16/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
A Guy's Worst Nightmare
Its the worst thing that can possibly happen to an ambitious, goal-seeking suitor: asking the girl of your dreams on a date, and hearing that nasty, but sometimes inevitable, “No.” Those two little ...
0    0    6    5.36    4/16/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/13/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
NO THANK YOU
SAYING "NO THANKS" SAYING THESE TWO WORDS CAN GET YOU ALOT OF PLACES. FRIENDS THAT ASK YOU TO TRY SOMETHING [EXA.DRUGS] ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS JUST SAY NO AND WALK AWAY. THEY WILL TRY THERE BEST ...
0    0    7    0.24    4/13/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/11/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Let them down gently, but let them down.
I thought that I was going to be doing the nice thing when I just ignored this girl, instead it made things ever worse than I could have ever imagined. It all happened a few years ago while I ...
0    25    2    3.12    4/11/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

4/3/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
Saying 'NO' to the persistent
It really amazes me no end how some men can be so persistent and won't take no for an answer...their hide is so thick that 'No' doesn't seem to penetrate through... it could be due to all that long ...
0    0    6    0.52    4/3/1999 12:00 am   

GUEST USER,

3/12/1999 12:00 am
1 Article, Score 0.0
choosing the right person
hello young teens,well i know that it is one time when u guys & girls r really keen on finding yourself a date, but it's the most important thing to choose the right person.so always be careful ...
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3/5/1999 12:00 am
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Why to say "No Thanks" To Drugs
All Though it may seem that drugs are cool it really isn't. If you become hooked you will end up a washed up "bum" who will do just about anything to get high. People like this are poor ...
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1/31/1999 12:00 am
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How to brush off signals
There is nothing worst than a girl that you don't like, likes you. How do you break it to them gently? Well, I have noticed the strong signals and you just play dumb. IE: My friend Jackie liked me. ...
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1/29/1999 12:00 am
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Graceful way to AVOID octopus hugs FROM men, for M or F
The man is warm and wonderful and you decided to go for an embrace. Suddenly you are stuck with a human octopus. Or just as bad, you don’t know how to change from simple hug to a little more ...
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1/26/1999 12:00 am
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Saying no isn't as hard as it may seem
Saying no isn't as hard as you may think. It all depends on how hard you make it for yourself. For instance, if someone asks you out and you say, "I'll think about it" when you really want to say no ...
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1/17/1999 12:00 am
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Saying no is a BIG deal.
Many people when asked for a date/relationship often respond poorly. Many will simply say no, many will say yes, but even more people than those two combined will say maybe. Maybe is the worst ...
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1/16/1999 12:00 am
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The Mr. NOT Right Rejection Letter
If everyone else's experiences have been like mine, you've met some VERY nice men and women and you've met some "doozies" - well, "doozies" according to your own standards. Sometimes, it's very ...
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1/12/1999 12:00 am
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Keep your "willy" where it belongs
The hardest thing for a guy to do is to not have sex. His "willy" is wild and crazy and when there is an opening for him to see himself in, he usually takes it. Usually is the key word though. ...
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1/7/1999 12:00 am
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Some like It rough
If you are going to break-up, or deny someone the oppurtunity to date you:sometimes you got to be upfront. Some people just do not understand you when you give them an excuse like,"I am washing my ...
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1/4/1999 12:00 am
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how about a little honesty
hows this for a new years resolution....lets be honest!!! you know we've all done it. we've met the person that we have been corresponding to and well we just arent interested. instead of beating ...
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1/2/1999 12:00 am
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No means No
Saying no thanks can be hard sometimes when you may think you are ready, but there is a little voice in your head saying don't do it. Listen to that voice, because even if you are having the ...
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12/30/1998 12:00 am
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What do you mean no?
In some situations saying no just doesn’t feel like the right thing to do. I’m sure you have felt it before. Isn’t it what people do? You feel you should just let whatever happen. Yet something ...
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12/26/1998 12:00 am
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Why Shouldn't I?
Why not take drugs? Why not have sex? Why shouldn't I drop out of school? I feel that These are most of the common questions many teens ask themselves. Askiing questions like these and thier ...
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12/24/1998 12:00 am
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How to Say No to Clinton !
(1) Dammit no Bill, Ken Starr knows where I live ... (2) I'll swallow like you inhale buddy ! (3) Mr.Clinton I'm sorry but that's my favourite dress. (4) Daaaaaaad stop it !!! *g* ...
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12/13/1998 12:00 am
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saying no thanks to sex
If you are under age and a guy asks you to have sex say no, If you dont know a guy very well and he asks you to have sex tell him that you are sorry and that you dont want to have sex with him yet ...
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11/10/1998 12:00 am
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Survival
We didn't see it coming. Life was as usual. We met everyday after school - went out, talked on the phone. The only sign was that we seemed to be bickering over small matters ever so often. ...
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11/7/1998 12:00 am
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Say No to the Office Beau
There he (she) is sitting across the desk from you. You get each other coffee, share a pencil sharpener, cover each other for lunch, but is it okay to take it further. DON"T DO IT! I have ...
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10/9/1998 12:00 am
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Drugs - How to say NO
We live in a society that is filled with drugs. I know because I used to use them. Drugs are created to give us an unnatural high. This feels great at first but soon becomes a drag. The problem ...
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9/16/1998 12:00 am
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No Thanks the best
Today the usage of drugs is worldwide.It depends a lot on the user himself.Some may say yes or no to drugs.If drugs is being use in the medical purpose in curing the sick than it is okay as it ...
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8/24/1998 12:00 am
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JUST SAY NO!!
Hi, This is a letter to tell people how important I think it is not to let peer pressure bother you or others. I knew this person that grew up in a rough neighborough and he was a good ...
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8/22/1998 12:00 am
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Why I'm Not Ready For Sex
My best friend did it when she was 15, but I haven't done it yet, mostly because I haven't found the right person. I feel like I should like him a lot, and he should care about me a lot too. ...
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8/6/1998 12:00 am
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What They Really Mean
What Woman Say, And What Do They Really Mean? 1) They say: can we just be friends? They mean: there is not a chance in hell that I'd ever want to go out with you! 2) They say: I need ...
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8/1/1998 12:00 am
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Navigating Through the Internet Swamp
Most of us have had the experience--you get anonymous email, an anonymous ICQ, or a response from Friendfinder from a person you're pretty dubious about. There are ways around the rare-but-possible ...
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8/1/1998 12:00 am
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Its OK to say "NO" to SEX
From my personal experience: SEX CAN WAIT. I know some of you may feel that its the only way you can truly get close to your bf/gf, but sometimes it can only do the opposite. I once heard "Sex ...
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7/12/1998 12:00 am
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Does he ever go too far?
The best way to say no to a guy is to say, "NO!" Be firm and say it like you mean it, otherwise they won't take you seriously. It's your body and no one else has the right to tell you how to ...
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7/3/1998 12:00 am
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Saying NO
Hello Kids all over the world. If somebody offers you a drink or smoke say ...
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6/10/1998 12:00 am
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Professor No
Okay, so you've finally started the dating scene again and found some enticing prospects online. You decide to talk on the phone, and then to meet someone in person. You do all the safe things - go ...
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5/30/1998 12:00 am
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I'm sorry, missed the word "perfect" in your profile...
While this may be great advice (in my mind) you may disagree, write your own. First we look to the familiar answer to the personal --- "I saw your ad, sounds like we might have something in ...
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5/27/1998 12:00 am
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No thanks to what, who ???!!!
Hi! Saying NO thanks is not a difficult word to say. There are many things which you want to say No to something you don't wish to do. Have some courage to say NO when somebody offer you ...
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5/22/1998 12:00 am
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Smoke-free mouth
Hard to say no! Well, hear this one out first! Smoker: Want a cigarette? Victim: Nah, I don't think so Smoker: come on, chicken! Victim : No! You won't get me to do that smoky thing by ...
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5/19/1998 12:00 am
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No one needs to go through this.....
For some reason, my article pasted like this...please feel free to arrange it as needed. Note: All characters' names have been changed for protection When I first moved in to my co-op, I was ...
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5/19/1998 12:00 am
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Saying NO !
Have you ever had one of those times when your friends asked you to do something you don’t feel like doing; but simply don’t know how to say it without hurting thier feelings ? Or when your mom ...
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5/13/1998 12:00 am
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Are You weak?
A major factor that I have found in my experiences to be somewhat responsible for a great deal of pain is called "peer pressure". We are somehow almost forced to actually believe that we are no ...
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5/6/1998 12:00 am
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my ways to say "no" to a person.
how to say no. 1. if you're in a different city that you don't go to often just say that you're gay. 2. if they're gay say that you're straight 3.say that you'll call them but "forget" their ...
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4/12/1998 12:00 am
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Giving NO or Taking NO from sb.
In case you are going to have some natural fun or enjoyment with somebody and you receve "NO". Don't you worry its could be YES, but remember it could be "NO". So how to decide which NO is in ...
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4/12/1998 12:00 am
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Giving NO or Taking NO from sb.
In case you are going to have some natural fun or enjoyment with somebody and you receve "NO". Don't you worry its could be YES, but remember it could be "NO". So how to decide which NO is in ...
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4/10/1998 12:00 am
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How To Say "No Thanks"
Telling someone that they are not appealing to you or that you are not interested can be difficult. Most of us don't want to hurt someone's feelings when we feel turned off. Often we pretend that ...
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3/23/1998 12:00 am
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Mean what you say, and say what you mean!
If you've tried everything and it still doesn't work, have a good friend whom you trust and who he/she knows is close to you tell him/her that "No" means "No". Leave no room for guessing. ...
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3/23/1998 12:00 am
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How to break it to them nicely!
There are many different ways to break it to the person nicely. But I guess one of the most frequently used ones is "No, I think it's better if we just stay friends." Or something like "I don't ...
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3/22/1998 12:00 am
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A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE!
I consider myself to be pretty straight forward. I am not into drugs of any sort, except a few drinks occasionally, do not patronise gambling or pay for sex. This last point is pretty ...
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3/19/1998 12:00 am
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Stalked by a 7 year old
My... interesting... experience started when I went to babysit my next door neighbor's son, Michael. It was the first time I had babysat for him, and since I wanted him to like me I brought some ...
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2/28/1998 12:00 am
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ADDICTED TO SAYING "YES"?
As a friend, I would like to advise all you out there, especially the girls against being addicted to saying "yes". Most girls say yes to lifts from strangers hence resulting in their being ...
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2/27/1998 12:00 am
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It's Alright to Say No.
For most girls, the first sexual experiance is exciting, mysterious, and can also be painful. Most teenage girls give in to sex because of here it comes...peer pressure. Not only peer pressure, ...
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2/25/1998 12:00 am
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Do Not Leave Them Hanging
we all here at FriendFinders get email from others that we may not be attracted to..Now what do we do about it..Do we just trash it and go on or do we answer it. I myself try to care for others ...
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2/24/1998 12:00 am
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Not that far that fast
Hello everyone ever been caught in a cituaton with a date that you were uncomfortable with? Alot of people have. And saddly enough alot of people just dont know how to say No, or are afraid if they ...
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2/14/1998 12:00 am
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No to drugs!
Many teenagers around the world is taking drugs. Some of them for the very first time. Unfortunatly many of them dies as a result of the drugs. As a supervisor for young teenagers that is on ...
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1/19/1998 12:00 am
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How to tell him/her No when you dont want to date them at the moment!
When a man or woman asks you out and you do not want to go out with them say No thanks or change the subject and ask him or her if they would like to go do something else. Tell him or her you like ...
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1/16/1998 12:00 am
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Why can I not say "NO" to my partner.
You have difficulty saying, "No," because you are worried that s/he will be hurt if you do. <P> You care about him/her. And if you're like most people, you're also concerned about what s/he ...
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