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trapper1966 57 M
1  Article
the truth hurts   6/28/2015

saying no thanks to me would be a kindness than leaving me hanging . whats so hard about saying you are not my type im sorry . we are here to find our soul mate and if we do not have honesty in the begining what do we have ?.. this is only my opinion my heart is not made of glass it will not break .. there is only so much time i have on this earth and i would love to spend it with the woman of ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 0 Votes
somosamigos31 68 M
1  Article
When Do Guys Realize It's Over?   2/8/2010

Do guys really know?

Here's am example in a message written to swoon the lady: "From the moment that i seen you i opened the email and saw your match with your picture in a perfect smile on your face, beautiful nose (as to my expectation really), eyes, and the perfect mouth in a very interesting looking body!

I was surprised by the strength with broad–yet superior ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
beachboy002 57 M
10  Articles
ok here is my view   2/28/2008

saying no thanks is the opposite of saying yes please .....so when you say no thanks do you sometimes mean yes please but you gotta try harder? maybe not i dont know what i'm talking about i'm sure!


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
Dutch07 50 M
7  Articles
Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino?   4/29/2007

Do amicably break-ups exist?

Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted' with good advice from firends and colleagues about amicable break-ups.

Is there such thing? What does it say about the couple breaking up? Do they still love each other maybe?

Reversely, they say love can turn to hate ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Tais_S 56 F
7  Articles
Why?   3/21/2007

Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks". But very often the men accept these words as "Please, try again" and continue more urgent. And finaly when the woman says emphatically NO, the men get angry.
Why, dear men? "No, thanks" mean exactly NO. And no need to look for another meaning.


1 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
SirBri 59 M
10  Articles
Delete the message and move on...   8/5/2006

Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them why you do not want them, just delete their message and move on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of someone who was interested in you. I would rather not know than be told why.


4 Comments, 53 Views, 16 Votes ,0.34 Score
GMan2002 54 M
3  Articles
Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest!   7/3/2006

I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to tell either a lady or man that they seem like a great person, but they are just not exactly what you are looking for personally.
It is also good manners to wish them every success and all the ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
fitzer25 43 M
6  Articles
girls need to be straight up   5/8/2006

girls when they don't have the connection to the guy they need to tell them straight up they are not interested. I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you think you have a chance


3 Comments, 56 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
papa_chubby 55 M
29  Articles
Whats with not being direct   3/16/2006

I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure out what their thinking. What is that about? Anybody?


9 Comments, 115 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
papa_chubby 55 M
29  Articles
Sarcasm, sometimes not the same as wit!   3/16/2006

Retract the challenge Then lie in wait!
Accumulating points planned just like fate
Mental reserves kept in iron tanks
Denver chalked up points while saying no thanks!
Doh!


0 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Denverhigh 86 M
38  Articles
No Thanks, Papa Chubby!   3/15/2006

I am saying No Thanks to this race.
I bow to you. I have too much college homework that I have to turn in by Friday.
Denverhigh


0 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
papa_chubby 55 M
29  Articles
sometimes no means more than no   3/10/2006

Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO! Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told me, she didnt want him getting any strange ideas.
Ha!


0 Comments, 81 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
8455 49 M
15  Articles
The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks"   9/27/2005

Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that time or times, and asking yourself why? How come we just can't except it. It's usually because we know, that we mean well and am confident in who we are. Being told "No Thanks" is mind breaking, because we start ...


2 Comments, 255 Views, 21 Votes ,5.35 Score
MistressM7 41 F
1  Article
Telling it like it is...   3/12/2005

A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are also taught that people do play games like this, so often, others persist in trying to get a "yes." But how many "No"s do they have to hear to figure out that no matter what they do, the answer is no?


1 Comments, 256 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
TonyMccoy 64 M
1  Article
RESPECT   9/4/2004

Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately, everyone cannot be satisfied. Finding, and then connecting with the person of their desire. Desire is a very powerful emotion, and it sometimes gets the best of us. I have a few words of advice to you all. "Desire itself, ...


1 Comments, 122 Views, 20 Votes ,6.06 Score
lokie95 54 M
1  Article
Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen..   4/11/2004

There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship. I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through. I know we had physical attraction, but it takes more then just that. Yeah we made the mistake of trying to stay just friends, but it was too soon, because it ended up in disaster.We kept bouncing back ...


0 Comments, 264 Views, 49 Votes ,6.57 Score
juanjo5584 67 M
1  Article
ENGAÑOS   1/27/2001

Estuve enamorado de una chica a quien llamaremos Adela, fué un impacto de primer momento y de gustarnos mutuamente, por las actividades de trabajo tratamos siempre de mantener nuestra relación oculta de la vista de los demás, me sentí adolecente nuevamente y sonriente en la vida me esforcé por darle los gustos que tienen sabor a lujo en una relación de pareja, le agradaban y me ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 38 Votes ,2.99 Score
RENTON_22 45 M
1  Article
AUN NO MAS TARDE   10/22/2000

YO CREO QUE NO ES NECESARIO ESTAR DICIENDO QUE NO A TODO EL MUNDO, COMO POR EJEMPLO EN EL CASO DE LAS DROGAS. CUANDO TE INVITEN DROGAS TU SOLO DI AUN NO MAS TARDE O SINO DESPUES ES MUY TEMPRANO AUN. ES ALGO MAS COMO DO PARA UNO NO CREEN. ESPERO QUE LES SIRVA DE ALGO ADIOS.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,0.68 Score
mialaura3 72 F
1  Article
para un amor gitano   10/18/2000

My Lost Gipsy Amor gitano, tu que no lograste despedirte y dejaste muchosrecado sin respuestas, tu que recojiste la botella en el mar de los solitarios para burlarte lo unico que lograste es engañarte a ti mismo/a. Pediste una comunicacion y al tenerla huyste sin dejar rastro de tus sueños por el miedo a ser descubierto/a y no te diste cuenta que descubriste tus miserias. Hay que saber ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score