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mozartcosma 24 M
1  Article
really backward   10/14/2010

gratitude and appreciation are only shown through saying thanks. and yet all of us have something we appreciate in life, so if one says 'no thanks' i can't really get him or her. conclusively, saying 'no thanks' is is backward.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Tiiihhhago 26 M
6  Articles
Magic Words   3/17/2010

Everyone knows how is suck to pass for a situation where the ppl needs to have education, but they don´t say nothing like... "excuse-me", "im sorry", etc...

do you use this "magic words" in your day long?


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
somosamigos31 60 M
1  Article
When Do Guys Realize It's Over?   2/8/2010

Do guys really know?

Here's am example in a message written to swoon the lady: "From the moment that i seen you i opened the email and saw your match with your picture in a perfect smile on your face, beautiful nose (as to my expectation really), eyes, and the perfect mouth in a very interesting looking body!

I was surprised by the strength with broad–yet superior ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
beachboy002 49 M
10  Articles
ok here is my view   2/28/2008

saying no thanks is the opposite of saying yes please .....so when you say no thanks do you sometimes mean yes please but you gotta try harder? maybe not i dont know what i'm talking about i'm sure!


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
WoryaII 51 M
3  Articles
No Thanks to you "I think"?   5/4/2007

This is a very good question... Saying "no thanks" is pretty cut and dry yet it becomes very confusing(for instance ~Here~) when the party is started by the girl and she ~winks~ or puts you in her ~hotlist~ or better yet goes the distance and even email you and when you respond there is no reply "except night crikets and frogs" so several days may go by and the act starts all over again and you ...


2 Comments, 30 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
Dutch07 42 M
7  Articles
Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino?   4/29/2007

Do amicably break-ups exist?

Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted' with good advice from firends and colleagues about amicable break-ups.

Is there such thing? What does it say about the couple breaking up? Do they still love each other maybe?

Reversely, they say love can turn to hate ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Tais_S 48 F
7  Articles
Why?   3/21/2007

Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks". But very often the men accept these words as "Please, try again" and continue more urgent. And finaly when the woman says emphatically NO, the men get angry.
Why, dear men? "No, thanks" mean exactly NO. And no need to look for another meaning.


2 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
georges43 36 M
5  Articles
talk   8/22/2006

must be NO to listen for lie talk from woman , NOt to let your self as you are believe her talk ( or him talk )


2 Comments, 37 Views, 17 Votes ,1.57 Score
SirBri 51 M
10  Articles
Delete the message and move on...   8/5/2006

Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them why you do not want them, just delete their message and move on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of someone who was interested in you. I would rather not know than be told why.


7 Comments, 53 Views, 60 Votes ,1.15 Score
GMan2002 46 M
3  Articles
Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest!   7/3/2006

I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to tell either a lady or man that they seem like a great person, but they are just not exactly what you are looking for personally.
It is also good manners to wish them every success and all the ...


5 Comments, 67 Views, 37 Votes ,4.17 Score
QuartsOnCourts2 37 M
10  Articles
no   5/30/2006

Just say no, forget the thanks.


6 Comments, 51 Views, 34 Votes ,0.63 Score
rjl4758 57 M
2  Articles
Is there something wrong here?   5/11/2006

I have recently been receiving alot of winks from asian ladies aged 18-19. They say they have read my profile so they have to know that I am 47 years. I have children older than these ladies. Do they really think that I would be interested in hooking up with them? I am fairly new to this site and I do not know if this is the norm.


7 Comments, 75 Views, 40 Votes ,1.56 Score
fitzer25 34 M
6  Articles
girls need to be straight up   5/8/2006

girls when they don't have the connection to the guy they need to tell them straight up they are not interested. I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you think you have a chance


3 Comments, 55 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
papa_chubby 47 M
29  Articles
Whats with not being direct   3/16/2006

I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure out what their thinking. What is that about? Anybody?


12 Comments, 115 Views, 31 Votes ,3.14 Score
papa_chubby 47 M
29  Articles
Sarcasm, sometimes not the same as wit!   3/16/2006

Retract the challenge Then lie in wait!
Accumulating points planned just like fate
Mental reserves kept in iron tanks
Denver chalked up points while saying no thanks!
Doh!


0 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Denverhigh 78 M
38  Articles
No Thanks, Papa Chubby!   3/15/2006

I am saying No Thanks to this race.
I bow to you. I have too much college homework that I have to turn in by Friday.
Denverhigh


0 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
papa_chubby 47 M
29  Articles
sometimes no means more than no   3/10/2006

Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO! Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told me, she didnt want him getting any strange ideas.
Ha!


3 Comments, 81 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
8455 40 M
15  Articles
The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks"   9/27/2005

Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that time or times, and asking yourself why? How come we just can't except it. It's usually because we know, that we mean well and am confident in who we are. Being told "No Thanks" is mind breaking, because we start ...


7 Comments, 255 Views, 39 Votes ,3.48 Score
BuenoX30 40 M
1  Article
Do the Right Thing   9/9/2005

Ladies~ <br> If a guy does not interest you simply tell him thank you but you are not interested. By choosing not to answer calls you are leading him on and it is not helping either one of you. Show some respect and he will move on without bothering you.


7 Comments, 138 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
PELVAR2001 53 M
2098  Articles
I AM HAPPY WITH YOU AND WITHOUT YOU   5/28/2005

After finalizing the rain of a winter that already finishes, the shadows withdraw and, appears the Sun again to my window; although with cold, still. <br> Then your memory wraps me and I shelter me again in the hope. At times hurts the memory of your presence and other hurts your absence. <br> That to be and not to be, here I am. ... The unleashing of the time ...


0 Comments, 223 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Telling it like it is...   3/12/2005

A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are also taught that people do play games like this, so often, others persist in trying to get a "yes." But how many "No"s do they have to hear to figure out that no matter what they do, the answer is no?


3 Comments, 256 Views, 21 Votes ,2.75 Score
PappiTito 39 M
2  Articles
Just say no!   2/7/2005

Some people just can't take no for an answer. However, there are many ways to remedy this problem: 1. pepper spray 2. statement claiming v.d. 3. claim pre- or post-op transexuality 4. tell them you'd love to, but have to check with Mom first 5. state you're a priest or a nun 6. tell them you've fantasized of that moment from the tree outside their bedroom window for months 7. ...


5 Comments, 206 Views, 22 Votes ,1.93 Score
RESPECT   9/4/2004

Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately, everyone cannot be satisfied. Finding, and then connecting with the person of their desire. Desire is a very powerful emotion, and it sometimes gets the best of us. I have a few words of advice to you all. "Desire itself, ...


2 Comments, 122 Views, 20 Votes ,6.06 Score
How to say no   4/26/2004

First, be sure that you really want to say no. If you are not quite sure, tell the other person that you need time to think. Whatever the question may be, it is not worth disturbing your emotional/mental health. <br> Second, if you are quite sure that you really want to say no, then make sure that the other person knows that. That means, follow your words through with an ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 46 Votes ,6.39 Score
Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen..   4/11/2004

There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship. I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through. I know we had physical attraction, but it takes more then just that. Yeah we made the mistake of trying to stay just friends, but it was too soon, because it ended up in disaster.We kept bouncing back ...


1 Comments, 264 Views, 51 Votes ,6.39 Score
¿Cuando decir no?   5/6/2002

Muchas veces nos hemos llegado a preguntar hasta donde aceptar las cosas, sin llegar a tener problemas de ningyuna indole; la respuesta es sencilla, desde mi punto de vista podemos aceptar una invitacion, mientras la persona que nos invite preferentemente lo haga personalmente, escoge un lugar publico donde puedas controlar la situacion, son puntos a tu favor, a menos que sea de nuestra ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 159 Votes ,6.83 Score
un masaje relajante   5/1/2002

un dia ingrese mis datos a amigos.com. y recibi varios correos, escoji los de las mujeres que vivian en mi misma ciudad, luego de cruzar algunos email, logre contactar telefonicamente a tres ellas, como yo soy masajistas a todas les ofreci mi servicio, asi por varios fines de semana empece a visitarlas, dos de ellas me encantaban, y como yo soy tan astuto aquellos masajes pasaron de ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 79 Votes ,0.26 Score
Despídete al menos   9/21/2001

Creo que cuando se empieza una relación debe ser sincera.Si te ha gustado, por qué y esas cosas.Luego los emails se suceden con éxito y parece que todo funciona. Pero muchos dejan de escribir sin motivo aparente.Sería bueno obtener una respuesta, como "mira he encontrado a otra" o "no tengo las ideas claras".En fin, algo que no te haga pensar "pero ahora qué he hecho" o "le habrá ...


1 Comments, 55 Views, 191 Votes ,6.94 Score
UNA PREGUNTA PUBLICA...   8/30/2001

En nuestro país desde pequeños se nos enseña el valor de la vida, la familia y las costumbres, cosa que olvidamos cuando aprendemos a leer y vemos como poco a pocos las antiquisimas tradiciones se van relegando a una pequeña esquina del bagón de los recuerdos pasados de moda. <br> Aún recuerdo las llamadas de atención de mi abuela cuando me veía tratando de atrapar una ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 79 Votes ,7.78 Score
MUY DIFICIL IDENTIFICAR   5/4/2001

Tengo 45 años de edad. Lo lamentable de mi caso es que cada vez conozco menos a las mujeres. Sin embargo, espro algún día, realmente llegar a conocerlas. Pero en mi experiencia lo que si me queda claro, es que, la edad de una mujer juega mucho en una relación: Existen la que entregan todo por amor (las menores a 35 años) y aquellas que siempre esperan algo a cambio (las mayores a 35 ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 51 Votes ,4.15 Score
   2001-05-01

Había una vez un joven apuesto que se enamoró de un mensaje electrónico. Lo firmaba "chiquitina" y su contenido era de una lírica poética. Respondió el joven pensando que aquella chiquitina debía ser como una muñeca, frágil, dulce, bella. <br> Transcurrieron dos años en un ir y venir de mensajes enmarcados en suspiros y ensueños del joven. Ella se llamaba Sara y tenía 20 años. Poco más le había explicado de su vida y señas, pero no necesitaba más. Tánto le habían calado sus palabras. <br> Por fin, un día, decidieron encontrarse. Ella llevaría en la mano unos guantes negros. El la descubriría y llegaría hasta ella. Ella miraría sus ojos verdes y le reconocería. <br> Las doce. Café del Centro. Sentada en una mesa, Sara espera. Entra un joven de inquietos ojos verdes. Se acerca tembloroso a la mesa en que distingue unos guantes negros. Mira a Sara y un escalofrío recorre su cuerpo mientras recuerda su seudónimo "chiquitina". Como un relámpago piensa que debería haberse firmado "horripilina". Rojo de vergüenza por no saber cómo salir de la situación dice, con la voz más dulce de que fué capaz: ¿Eres Sara? <br> - No, gracias-, respondió ella mientras seguía con su café.


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Si una persona no te interesa...   4/26/2001

...lo mejor es decírselo claramente a la cara y decirle que como amigos bien, pero no como pareja. Eso puede crear algo de tensión, pero demuestra la sinceridad de una persona.


2 Comments, 44 Views, 177 Votes ,6.99 Score
NO GRACIAS, ES PARTE DE TU VIDA QUE TE PUEDE AYUDAR   4/16/2001

HOLA, SOY UNA CHICA DE 18 AÑOS DE MEXICO, LO QUE LES TENGO QUE CONTAR ES ALGO QUE LES PUEDE AYUDAR A MUCHOS JOVENES, SABEN A PESAR DE MI EDAD NUNCA HE TENIDO UN NOVIO, Y NO ES POR QUE NO QUIERA SIMPLEMENTE POR QUE NADIE ME LO HA PEDIDO, TAL VEZ ES POR QUE LA MAYORIA DE LOS CHAVOS QUE ME GUSTAN PIENSAN QUE SOY PAYASA, Y NO SE POR QUE YA QUE SOY MUY BUENO ONDA. UNA OCASION HICIMOS UNA FIESTA ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 69 Votes ,6.42 Score
Países desarrollados/Países subdesarrollados   4/13/2001

A los pobladores de los países "desarrollados": <br> Decid "No gracias" en casos como: <br> - Os quieren vender una moto que no va ningún sitio Os quierencomer el coco con productos que solo servirán para acabar en la basura. - Quieren dejar a vuestros nietos una atmósfera y una tierra contaminada sólo porque a los grandes especuladores no les importa ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 23 Votes ,1.73 Score
Es el amor de mi mejor amiga   4/12/2001

Es un chico guapo, un abogado de éxito, un soltero de oro. Desde hace más de un año, mi mejor amiga, que está loquita por él y es guapísima, una chica muy llamativa, lo ve los fines de semana por la noche en la discoteca, y entonces se besan y se acarician y tienen sexo rápido. El no tiene deseos de verla durante el día y tampoco es la ùnica chica con la que tiene relaciones. Yo lo ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 76 Votes ,6.26 Score
NO PIERDAS LAS ESPERANZAS!!!   4/11/2001

NO PIERDAS LAS <br> <br> <br> ESPERANZAS... <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Soy Kadir de Cuba .Hace menos de un mes que comencé en Amigos..com con el objetivo de llenar el vacío que tenía mi vida y realmente ha sido muy efectivo.Es realmente impresionante ver que el mundo ...


0 Comments, 110 Views, 71 Votes ,5.40 Score
no a las drogas   3/16/2001

al cumplir los 16 años de edad comence a frecuentar fiestas y mas fiestas y a tener nuevas experiencias , en una de esas fiestas conoci un grupo un poco mayor que yo, y la verdad que yo me sentia un poco tonto ya que al ser timido yo veia como ellos se desenvolvian en medio de la fiesta, pero me trataban bien hasta que cuando yo estaba un poco mareado uno de ellos me llevo afuera y me ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 19 Votes ,4.31 Score
como decir no gracias.   3/15/2001

me gustaria pedirles que me ayuden con el siguiente problema estaba en la casa de unos amigos, a los que yo no veia hacia ya 1 año, ya que ellos 2 se habian ido a hacer el servicio militar. yo me habia dado cuenta que estaban un poco cambiados, pero se lo atribuia a el año dificil que habian pasado, ellos, esa noche cuando eran ya lsa 2:30 a.m. sacaron de su bolsillo un sobrecito blanco, ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 50 Votes ,3.76 Score
DICIENDO TE AMO   3/15/2001

DICIENDO TE AMO NO SON PALABRAS LAS QUE QUIERO ESCUCHAR DE TI NO, NO LO DIGAS PERO SI SOLAMENTE SUPIERAS CUAN FACIL SERIA MOSTRARME TUS SENTIMIENTOS MAS QUE PALABRAS TODO LO QUE TIENES QUE HACER ES HACERLO REALIDAD ENTONCES NO DEBES DECIRLO DEBES AMARME PORQUE YO ESTOY LISTO PARA SABERLO QUE HACER SI MI CORAZON HABIA LLORADO DOBLEMENTE MAS QUE PALABRAS ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 124 Votes ,4.95 Score
No es no, son solo 2 palabras.   3/13/2001

Se que no es nada facil decir que no. Hay hombres que creen que si dicen que no a algo(una relacionsexual ilicita, una aventura), se van a ver menos hombres, y hay mujeres que creen que van a perder algo si dicen que no( las van a dejar, las van a despedir, ect.) Gente, les tengo noticias, aquellas personas a las que usteds les cuesta tanto decirles que no no va a perder el sueño por ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 41 Votes ,4.41 Score
Cuando DEBES decir   3/13/2001

Aunque parezca increible, hay personas que no saben cuando decir "no, gracias". En lo personal tengo dos pequeñas reglas que me han funcionado bastante bien: <br> 1. Cuando te obliguen, presionen o chantajeen a hacer algo que tu NO QUIERES hacer 2. Cuando te obliguen, presionen o chantajeen a hacer algo que tu NO ESTAS SEGURO de querer hacer <br> En el primer caso, indica ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 56 Votes ,7.48 Score
no encuentro la persona .   3/8/2001

hola soy un niño avwenturero peo no puedo encontrar a la persona para ser pareja de el so se pero he tenido experiencias originales aventuras locass y sienpre como que cometo alguna locura y es por eso que me dejan es lo unici que peudodecir soy de el salvador vivo en san miguel tengo 19 años soy moreno claro <br> <br>


0 Comments, 71 Views, 50 Votes
Semplemente no   3/4/2001

HACE MAS DE DOS AÑOS QUE ENTRE EN LA UNIVERSIDAD, CONOCI A UN MUCHACHO SUPER CHEVERE, NO TENIA UN FISICO TAN ATRACTIVO PERO ME GUSTO MUCHO SU MANERA DE PENSAR... Y A PARTE DE ESO ERA COMIQUISIMO. NOS HICIMOS NOVIOS, LA RELACION CADA VEZ ERA MAS BONITA... A LOS 7 MESES DE NOVIOS TUVIMOS RELACIONES (SE ASI SE LE PUEDE LLAMAR) EL ERA VIRGEN Y YO TAMBIEN; EL CASO FUE QUE NUNCA ME PENETRO ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 19 Votes ,1.01 Score
Por fin, promesas cumplidas   3/2/2001

Cuando estudiaba la secundaria cada 31 de diciembre me hacia una promesa: No andar más con prostitutas. Quiero decir aquellas mujeres a las que hay que pagarles para que se acuesten con uno. Pero llegaba enero, febrero, marzo, en fin, y volvía a mis andadas. Es que no tenía la experiencia, ni la formación académica para conquistar a una chica. Aunque hay quienes podrán decir que ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
diciendo no gracias no quiero estar sola esta noche quiero que estes conmigo   3/2/2001

Estaba solo como casi todas las noches , pensando en mis cosas , bueno en los estudios de la universoidad, no me di cuenta cuando ingreso al boliche esa morena despampanante pero si la vi cuando estaba sentada y cruzaba las piernas , dejo ver lo mas excitante que he visto en mi vida una tanga blanca transparente que dejaba ver la rajita tierna llena de vellos de aquella estupenda mujer , ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 50 Votes ,3.29 Score
cuando y como decir no gracias   3/2/2001

No gracias lo decimos cuidasoamente y sin lastimar a la persona que se le dice, hay que ser caudalosa, , si una persona te dice que hagasalgo que tu realmente sientes que te ofende solo dile que en este momento no quieres que nogracias ya que s una palabra muy decente y que ellos deverian respetar, algunos hombres solo buscan tener sexo con las mujeres y hay mujeres que si quieresn y ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 34 Votes ,3.87 Score
Que si que no .. .   2/22/2001

Que si. . . que no . . . Saben que? yo creo que a veces un silencio vale más que unmillón de palabras. . . <br> No se quien lo dijo pero, si se lo das a quien sepa escucharlote aseguro que no tendrás que explicar nada. <br> MavericK


0 Comments, 37 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
A veces si, aveces no   2/22/2001

Una vez sali de parranda con un primo mio. Tenia alrededor de 23 años trabajaba en una carpinteria que le dejaba un dinero para poderla pasarla bien o lo que el creia pasarla bien, era algo flaco, con el pelo enmarañado por el viento de otoño. yo era chico aùn, de unos 16 adolescentes años. Y salimos hacia la excitante noche, hacia la densa oscuridad como seres que van de caceria. Nos ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 33 Votes ,7.00 Score
Cuando debes de decir no gracias.   2/13/2001

Es importante que tomes en cuenta, que todos tus amigos, familiares te quieren y desean lo mejor para tí. pero ojo, hay quienes no quieren que tu felicidad se logre. esos no son amigos, `pues solo quieren acabar con tus buenos sentimientos, ten cuidado quien te dice, fumate este cigarro, ya sea de tabaco o de cualquier otra cosa, ese, no es tu amigo. y debes de decir no gracias


0 Comments, 52 Views, 41 Votes ,2.14 Score
De como me pillaron   2/8/2001

Hay quien piensa que las historias tienen un comienzo específico, esta no lo tiene. Desde que comencé mi sexualidad he sido promiscuo, pero nunca lo he aceptado. Mi físico me a ayudado a "levantarme" a quien he querido, hombres y mujeres han estado conmigo, en mi cama, en la cocina, en la playa y hasta en un parque. A mis 25 todavía me sentía invencible. Hace dos años conocí a una ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 64 Votes ,0.18 Score
Cuando decir NO.   1/26/2001

Nunca pensé que me vería en una situación similar. Ella era una chica a la que yo conocía desde algún tiempo antes. Siempre me había atraido sexualmente, pero a nivel peronal éramos bastante incompatibles. Físicamente ella es una preciosa chica morena, de pelo largo, grandes senos y una peciosas y torneadas piernas que vuelven loco a cualquiera. Supongo que nada de aquello hubiese ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 57 Votes ,1.90 Score
NO GRACIAS ¡¡¡¡¡ ES INDUDABLE ¡¡¡¡¡¡ ES UN ENGAÑO .   1/25/2001

si la verdad quieren mejorias en el sitio no se este engañando y probocando perdidas de tiempo en un espacio que deve ser usado para cosas buenas, no (repito)engaños que solo llevan a mejorar los bolsillos de los responsables de esta pagina , tal ves el nombre sea pagen para conseguir un amigo , que es para empesar algo incosebible, , talves sea su negosio pero no hay que caer en el total ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 26 Votes ,4.32 Score
Jamás debes permitir que te agredan   1/6/2001

Desde mi experiencia personal, después de haber sufrido durante 5 años, los desmanes de una persona que se creía dueña del mundo y de las personas, quiero decirle a las mujeres que están viviendo una situación de maltrato físico y sicológico, por parte de su compañero (llámese esposo, marido o cónyuge, que nunca es tarde para dar marcha atrás, y retomar la vida, sobretodo el ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 23 Votes ,5.35 Score
PORQUE TIENES QUE DECIR YA   1/4/2001

BUENO MI PROBLEMA FUE QUE DEJE MI ESPOSA PORQUE ME FUE INFIEL PERO A PASADO YA CASI UN ANO Y NO PUEDO OLVIDARLA Y SE ME AN ACERCADO OTRAS PERSONA PERO NO PUEDO VERLAS COMO PAREJA ME GUSTARIA SABER COMO PUEDO SALIR DE ESTO QUE NO ME PUEDO ENAMORAL.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 71 Votes
ME SALVO UNA PALABRA EL   1/3/2001

Una palabra que tal vez se toma como insignificante y tonta es el no, eso yo lo pensaba, eso lo imaginaba;pero que tan importante puede ser. El dia 12 de marzo de 1997, me acuerdo bien, mis compañeros todos menores de edad entramos a un table dance, todos menos yo, se sacaron a una chica , me dijeron llevate una, yo dije NO , me tomaron como marica.TODOS. De 7 que fuimos nada mas quedan 2 ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 82 Votes ,7.48 Score
No des tu teléfono sin garantías   1/2/2001

Recibí un mensaje de alguien que era encantador. A los dos meses de enviarnos e-mail me confesó estar casado -aunque yo decía claramente en mi perfil que huía de relaciones así-y aseguraba que su mujer no lo comprendía tras 5 años casados, y que se había enamorado locamente de mi. Tenía una niña de 6 meses. Es cuando tenía previsto enviarle mi teléfono y dirección. Pero le ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 367 Votes ,0.67 Score
ES MEJOR DECIR NO....   12/29/2000

UNO COMO MUJER ES MUY SENCIBLE A LAS PALABRAS DE LOS HOMBRES Y PUEDES SENTIR QUE ES VERDAD LO QUE DICEN, MAS MUCHAS DE LAS OCACIONES NO ES ASI...ELLOS BUSCAN TENER RELACIONES SEXUALES Y NADA MAS; YA QUE PARA ELLOS ES MEJOR DECIR UN TE QUIERO QUE PAGAR A ALGUIEN... YO EH ESTADO EN SITUACIONES SIMILARES, PERO HAY QUE SABER LO QUE UNO EN VERDAD QUIERE, YO ESTUBE APUNTO DE ACOSTARME CON UN ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 40 Votes ,4.83 Score
HE APRENDIDO!!!!!   12/27/2000

He aprendido que hay personas que te aman pero no saben como expresarlo. <br> He aprendido que el dinero es una pesima forma de llevar un record. <br> He aprendido que mi mejor amigo y yo podemos hacer cualquier cosa, o no hacer nada. Y pasar un buen rato. <br> He aprendido que aveces la gente que crees que te patearan si te caes, son quienes posiblemente te ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 31 Votes ,5.83 Score
Cuando debes decir   12/27/2000

Pues yo les aconsejo cuando;ustedes en particular a los jovenes porque tambien lo soy;decir no gracias es cuando ustedes las cosas se las describan muy bonitas y que no les digan consecunsia o tambien cuando ustedes les pase por la mente la frase"no se" porque esa frase es de su consiencia para tener mas criterio sobre sus desiciones sea valientes no se dejen llevar por lo que dira la gente ...


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Lugares no apropiados   12/26/2000

Esto no lo debería contar, pero en fin... <br> A finales del semstre pasado tenía una novia, que por cierto hacía mucho rato que no tenía novio. <br> Bueno, entre besos y caricias, estabamos en la universidad,y en un edificio de 7 pisos decidimos ir al sexto, no sé por qué, pero allí fue la blulliniada de loco. <br> llego un moemnto en el que estabamos tan hot, ...


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Cuando te ofrecen relaciones facil   12/25/2000

Eso de tener relaciones faciles en la vida, es un aspecto delicado... yo creo que cuando te dan eso con facilidad hay algo complicado detras de ello... puedes aprovecharte de eso pero puedes correr muchos riesgos.. o al menos, un remordimiento... a menos que seas de esas personas que andan metiendose en todos lados y sufren de amnesia... Como sea, cuida con quien te metes, no sea que un dia ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 35 Votes ,5.18 Score
Mi patrimonio moral es lo màs grande que tengo   12/24/2000

Hola: Mira la vida esta llena de tentaciones, y estas son provocadas por el propio hombre, lamentablemente hay muchas personas que son debìles, y ràpidamente se someten a los coqueteos de la imnunda corrupciòn, pero lamnetablemente termona mal; soy de las personas que creo que en esta vida todo se llega a saber, tarde o temprano todo lo malo e incorrecto que haga una persona, se llega a ...


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LO AMO PERO ES UN DON JUAN..... ES QUE ES UN PRINCIPE!!!!!!   12/21/2000

EL ES UN CHICO SUPER GUAPO.... PERO LO UNICO QUE BUSCA EN ENA MUJER ES DIVERSION, NO ES QUE YO SEA ABURRIDA SI NO QUE SI PASA ALGO CON EL, YO SE QUE EL VA JUGAR, COMO LO HACE CON TODAS. EL ME MIRA CON SUS OJOS PRECIOSOS, CON UNA MIRADA QUE LO DICE TODO PERO NO DICE NADA A LA VEZ... ES QUE EL ES UN GALAN DE TELENOVELAS Y ES CANTANTE. Y SIEMPRE ANDA RODEADO DE CHICAS QUE LO DARIAN TODO POR ...


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¡Tú eres importante!   12/15/2000

Algunas personas tendemos a tratar de agradar a los demás, complaciendo a nuestra familia, a nuestros jefes, a nuestros amigos y sobre todo a nuestra pareja; dejando a un lado nuestros propio gustos y preferencias. Lo cierto es, que para poder ser agradables y complacientes con los demás, debemos estar plenamente satisfechos primeramente con nosotros mismos, aceptándo todas nuestras ...


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Espera,,,todavia no le conocez.   12/5/2000

En una experiencia muy personal, aprendi que antes de sincerarte a un nuevo amigo o amiga, debes de dejar pasar un cierto tiempo que te permita conocer los valores de esa persona. Muchas veces en la angustia de la soleda y falta de familiares y "buenos amigos", terminamos confesando nuestros temores, problemas intimos, conflictos personales y tristemente esa persona que esperabamos fuera ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 38 Votes ,5.64 Score
como decir no   12/5/2000

yo soy un amigo que se me hace muy feo decir que no a mis amigos y muchas veces quedo mal con ellos y no se que hacer.......


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¿saber escuchar a las personas?   12/3/2000

Hola bunas noches al club de "Amigos.Com" <br> Antes que nada quiero FELICITARLOS por su gran trabajohacia los amigos de toda la red. de internet. su pagina perfecta. <br> mi mensaje es el siguiente: <br> CUANDO UNO TOMA UN TEMA TAN IMPORTANTE SEA CUALSEA DEBEAPRENDER A ESCUHAR BIEN PARA LUEGO DAR SU OPONION EN LO PERSONAL Y DECLRARSE EN PRIMERA PERSONA. O SEA ...


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hauto respeto   11/30/2000

uno debe de decir que no primero cunado lo propuesto es algo que ba encontra de nosostros mismos y nos falta alrespeto como podemos agradarle a las otars personas cuando no nos damos a respetar primero con nosostros mismos y luego con los dema


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Una noche en el paraíso...   11/17/2000

Es increíble como las cosas cambian, apenas el día anterior sufriamos un "ataque" masivo de las máquinas de producción que nos hacían suponer una terrible venganza por días de asueto anteriores... <br> Y hoy, un día que a comparación del anterior estabamos preparados para todo... Nada. <br> El acelerón de un día anterior nos deja un vacío enorme, los ruidos de las ...


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Amigos   11/14/2000

<br> <br> Parece que todos buscamso un buen amigo, pero te has puesto a pensar que lo podras conseguir. <br> Es dificil saberlo ya que un buen amigos se hase conversando, siendo sincero(a), y compartiendo muchas cosas . pero OJO. <br> Hay amigos quesolo quieren sacarte probecho, o buscan otro tipo de relacion que no es amistad por eso debemos de tener ...


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CUANDO DEBES DECIR NO GRACIAS ¡   11/3/2000

HOLA¡ES COMPLICADO EMPESAR ESTE TEMA PERO BUENO DEBEMOS ABORDARLO DE LA MEJOR MANERA¡ CUANDO DEBEMOS DECIR NO? EN UNA SITUACION QUE DESDE UN PENTO DE VISTA PUEDE SER ABLIGADA LA RESPUESTA SI, DEBEMOS DE REFLECCIONAR PARA NO TENER REMORDIMIENTOS NI MALESTARES EN EL CASO DE, RELACIONES SEXUALES, ALCHOLISMO, DROGAS, O DESOBEDIENCIA SOBRE LOS PRINCIPIOS QUE NOS AN INCULCADO NUESTROS PADRES¡ ...


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el engaño de las mas jovenes   10/30/2000

cuando una mujer tiene de 12 a17 esta expuesta a muchas cosas es mas fasil vacilarle lo digo porque yo alguna vez lo hise tambien y ahora ya soy un poco mas maduro como para desirle a una niña que no sea tonta aprobeche su infansia al maximo y que no se deje engañar por palabras bonitas en las cuales le ofreseran el cielo y la luna . yo lo he visto por mucho ...


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Decir   10/22/2000

En varias de las conversaciones con jovenes.En la actualidad se les dificulta el decir "no gracias" a las propuestas indecorosas y sexuales de sus amigos. El ritmo de vida que llevan los adolecentes en su continua busqueda de identidad propia y la necesidad de pertenecer a una organización o ser parte de un grupo determinado, es la presión suficiente para aceptar y decir "si".Esto mas ...


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¿Por qué dicen   10/20/2000

Una chica de mi ciudad me escribe diciéndome que ha visto mi página Web, que le gusta el Manga, y que qué bien que soy de su ciudad. Después de unos mails, la digo que si quiere podemos quedar para charlar en persona, y ella encantada. Entonces me deja de escribir... A las varias semanas la escribo pidiéndola que me diga algo o me llame por teléfono para saber qué ha pasado. ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
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para un amor gitano   10/18/2000

My Lost Gipsy Amor gitano, tu que no lograste despedirte y dejaste muchosrecado sin respuestas, tu que recojiste la botella en el mar de los solitarios para burlarte lo unico que lograste es engañarte a ti mismo/a. Pediste una comunicacion y al tenerla huyste sin dejar rastro de tus sueños por el miedo a ser descubierto/a y no te diste cuenta que descubriste tus miserias. Hay que saber ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
NO TODOS LOS AMIGOS SON REALES   10/6/2000

CREO Y ESTOY, CASI SEGURO, QUE UNA DE LAS COSAS MA DOLOROSAS ES CUANDO SIENTES QUE TINES UN(A) AMIGO(a) CON EL CUAL COMPARTIAS COSAS QUE NUNCA HABIAS HECHO. TE DABA CONFINZA Y TU SE LA DABAS TAMBIEN, EN FIN ELLA(E ERA PARTE DE TI. <br> PERO UN DIA TE LEVANTAS Y TE DAS CUENTA QUE ELLA SE ESTA ALEJANDO DE TI SIN NINGUNA EXPLICACIÓN; TE DAS CUENTA CON EL TIEMPO QUE ELLA SE ESTA ...


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NUNCA DIGAS TE AMO   10/2/2000

EN OCACIONES NOS TOPAMOS CON GENTE QUE NO CONOCEMOS PERO AL VER A SUS OJOS SABEMOS QUE ESA PERSONA VA HACER ALGUIEN ESPECIAL EN NUESTRA VIDA. NUNCA SABEMOS LO QUE ESAS PERSONAS PODRAN DEJARNOS. EN VECES TE PASAN COSAS QUE PARECEN INJUSTAS PUES PIENSASQUE NO TE LAS MERECES Y EN OCACIONES ESAS COSAS PROVIENEN DE LAS PERSONAS QUE MAS QUIERES. NUNCA LLEGUES A ODIAR A UNA PERSONA QUE LE ...


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CONTRADICCION   10/1/2000

Sucede que se presentan situaciones vitalmente contradictorias, frente a las cuales la voluntad se inclina por la aceptación, pero su efecto es nocivo. Lo más duro es decir NO GRACIAS . Lo dices, piensas y después reniegas de la decisión tomada. No aceptas lo que has hecho. En efecto toda esa actividad ¿Es buena?...NO. Surge el arrepentimiento y este forma parte neutra entre lo Bueno y ...


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Aprende a decir que no   9/28/2000

Muchas veces por el simple hecho de que queremos quedar bien con los demás o simplemente tenemos una leve inseguridad no nos atrevemos a decir que no. La mayoria de las personas nos ofrecen cosas que no siempre son buenas para nosotros y es por esto que debemos saber escoger entre una y otra...La verdad es que antes de que vallas a dar una respuesta respecto a cualquier cosa, piensalo ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 19 Votes ,4.57 Score
Razones   9/28/2000

Siempre supe que eras especial, pero cuando te vi bailar, aquella noche en el escenario, comprendí, con una mezcla de dolor y alegría, que mi amor por ti era mas pequeño de lo que creía, que tu entrega al hacer el amor, a pesar de todo lo maravilloso que me resultaba, era realmente ínfima, no tanto física como espiritualmente; había en tu ser mucho mas amor y no era precisamente por ...


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Gracias, no quiero mas de lo mismo   9/21/2000

No gracias, durante dos años y medio te di de todo lo mejor; lo que estaba a mi alcance. Di dignidad y categoria a tu vida, desaparecistes sin decir nada y ahora quieres aparentar que no pasa nada. No quiero mas de lo mismo, de engaños, traiciones, menosprecios y falta de sinceridad. Tardaré mucho en olvidarte, pero seguro que te lograré borrar de mi disco duro. Mi vida está ahi ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 16 Votes ,4.16 Score
Turning responses into friendship, not romance   5/18/2000

Over a period of time, I have received numerous E-mail responsesto my ad. Some of them were terrific matches and some were not I try to treat each and every one with respect and answer every one. Sometimes the replys are in the negative, and sometimes the positive, but the answers are always honest, forthright, and quick. Some of the responses, while they have not turned into romantic ...


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Cyber Break Up Letter   4/27/2000

Dear [insert screen name here] (if that is your real name), I regret to inform you that, under a plan for the periodic removal of unpleasantness from my life, I must terminate our online affair. This termination takes effect immediately, but only becauseI could not make it retroactive. Below, you will find the reasons for this action: _____ While our ...


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What do you mean No?   4/21/2000

This incident just happened to my cousin recently. She was out on a date with a guy she just met, and after being out awhile they went back to her place. Just as things started to get "hot and heavy", she said no. Of course, her date was all confused and kept trying to convince her to go all the way. When she said no for the second and final time, he left, and they haven't spoken to ...


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When and why to say no!   4/21/2000

<br> You are in control of your own destiny. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Every ones view of sex and sexuality differs, but one thing is the same: Safety and consent. If you don't want to do some thing say "NO" Its your right so use that word, as much as you like! Try not to get your self in to a dangerous situation, as there are a lot of ...


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Jack and Jill   4/17/2000

jack and jill <br> jack and jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water. jill forgot to take the pill, so now they have a daughter! <br> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ <br> jack and jill went up the hill for just an itty bitty. jill's now two months overdue and jack has left the city.


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Sex...it's all about being an adult...   4/14/2000

Sex is a big deal...so we hear from everyone around us nowadays. The age old questions of 'How young is too young?' and 'Yes or no?' come up on a more than regular basis. The question people should really be asking themselves is if they are adult enough to handle the situation. A few questions to keep in mind are these: <br> 1. If this is only a one-night stand, can I deal with ...


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Show a little respect for your peers   4/14/2000

I just started doing the internet meeting people thing a month or so ago, and it has been rather interesting at times. I've had the oppportunity to meet up with a few of the people I've talked to here as well as speaking to many on the phone where we could be a little more personal. I've been as guilty about blowing people off as the people I'm writing this about, so I guess that's like ...


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How to say   4/7/2000

First of all let me start out by mentioning that I am a 39 year old black female totally heterosexual. <br> I had been on line for a week, a person Emailed me and told me how much they liked my profile. I was swept off my feet by the charm and intellect, we wrote to each other in the mornings before we went to work, in the afternoons at lunch, and burning up the cables at night. ...


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I miss you..   4/3/2000

I miss you I know we`ve said our goodbyes and I know we`ve gone our separate ways, but I still miss you I wish that peaple were like chalkboards, and we could wash our memories clean. but we`re not and we can`t yet despite the anger that i feel sometimes, I still miss you. <br> we were happy once and I remember those times. i remember how we smiled and laughed, ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 55 Votes ,6.07 Score
When to be wary of meeting that special someone.   3/27/2000

Even though you have found that special "someone" on the net and you think you know all you need to know about him/her, please keep safety in mind. <br> 1) Remember, you do not really know who this person is. They could be some kind of psycho or something. <br> 2) If you still want to meet the person, make sure the meeting place is public. While this is not a ...


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When to say no   3/26/2000

I just finished reading an article talking about why to say no. It was talking about the vaious diseases one can get by having sex. It is a valid view but narrow in scope. <br> My view on sex won't be the same as everyone else and that's fine. Everyone has their own beliefs and style. The main point of this article is to decide when and how to have sex before the situation ...


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Tender is the night   3/25/2000

We had a special dinner at a very fancy restaurant that evening. The love of my life came late to pick me up and was "rushy", told me how many things he would have to do on the next morning.I gave him a drink to relax, but I had it clear that something diferent was going on HIS mind about our relationship.During the dinner he ate all and felt better, started talking while I was sipping my ...


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When you want to say yes but you got to say no!   3/22/2000

Sometimes saying no is a matter of self respect and keeping a committment to yourself. I made the decision to save sex until after marriage because my personal and my religious beliefs both tell me this is right for me. I am not frigid and I have the same feelings as any other woman but I have made a promise to me - I feel this gift of intimacy is worth waiting for until after a serious ...


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Saying NO! is like Saying GOODBYE!   3/21/2000

<br> How many of you women out there have liked a guy, went out and when it came down to doin the dirty, said no and ever saw the guy again? Well I would imagine few. I believe it comes down to respect and trust. I have been in this little yes, no game in nearly all my relationships and I have found that most cases you say yes and the guys got what he wants and he will go. now this ...


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Physical attraction..the hardest thing about internet matchmaking   3/20/2000

I think people are dishonest if we say "looks do not matter." OF COURSE they matter. It is hard when you make a somewhat close emotional connection (as is easy to do when using a keyboard), but then when the long awaited picture is transmitted...powww, there are no flames. Not even a spark. Hell, there's not even a match laying around. You just know you could never fall for this person. ...


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Cyber bye-byes   3/18/2000

There is nothing like being rejected, the coldness and emptiness of being trashed - but worse still is being sent to the eternal cyber trash can. Like being left suspended in space. That's the danger of this type of communication world, the keyboard prozac. The pain of disinterst and having to own up to another human being that it aint working. WELL - maybe the answer is to alwyas have ...


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let your mind be your driver   3/17/2000

Oh, my heart has it's reasons I can't say that it's right. It wants me to do things . The actions arn't always right. It has it's own rythem It has it's own beat It want of me action Some of them not bright. So heart listen to me listen to whats right Let the brain have it's purpose let it be with me tonight.


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How to Handle Loads of Mail   3/17/2000

I write that article to answer one happy man who receives heaps of love letters from three quality ladies at a time. Man, you really do have a problem, but that's not of a kind you cannot solve. May I try to humbly discuss your problems? <br> 1) You accepted the hectic pace of communication offered by those ladies. If you only had one lovely correspondent, that could last. Still you ...


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In The Shadows   3/10/2000

Meet me in the shadows Beneath a bright new moon Hold me in your loving gaze Tell me the night's in bloom Whisper promises in the dark Say what I want to hear Open your heart and love me From me there's nothing to fear Lay with me on the velvet Carpet of mother earth Join as one in my mind Let me be your first The first to have you In all your soul TO cherish on this ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
When to say NO!   3/7/2000

Sometimes in a relationship you just can't say no to the one that you love. Well I found out that once you get into the habit of doing that, things can take a turn for the worst. This isn't really an article. Just a reminder that we don't have to take it if we don't want to. Learn how to say no and use it.


0 Comments, 64 Views, 29 Votes ,3.94 Score
Will you regret this in the morning ?   3/4/2000

After a couple of awkward internet dates I finally found a nice lady to share some good times with. We were both lonely and seemed to hit it off in our letters. After the first date we just kissed and left it at that...we're both a little old fashioned. On the second date we had a lovely evening of dinner and dancing along with a few drinks. She was very attentive, almost intimate on the ...


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Too soon?   2/27/2000

When your date wants to take you home or whatever funny thing. Please say no or you might end up as his or her prey... even though the former is unlikely. Even though no matter how much you like him or her, give yourself the chance to go on a few more dates at least before rushing into anything.. ok?


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What's inside...   2/26/2000

Saw the most wonderful man here tonight. Handsome, great smile, good job, lives in a nice city, seems to have everything going. Then, in his "who I am" write up he began to talk about his personal "rightist political" beliefs. Okay, so I'm not a "rightist" but I read on, thinking maybe it's "capitalist-rightist" he might mean, maybe there's some room ... No, he means racist, rightist. How ...


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Disappearing Acts   2/20/2000

Anonymity is no excuse for being rude. Unfortunately, many people (both male and female) seem to think that it's o.k. to just disappear suddenly from the "getting to know you" stage of a correspondence. HOW RUDE! Has anyone ever thought that anonimity also provides a great chance to practice honesty. Maybe honesty has gone the way of the dinosaur in the world of cyberdating, but telling ...


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It's a matter of respect!   2/18/2000

When the e-mail arrives in your box with a request for correspondace, don't just delete it and trash it. Take a moment or two to tell the person you are no longer interested, busy, or what ever, but do take the time to answer. It takes courage for someone to e-mail a complete stranger and indicate that they'd like to get somethig started, and this deserves a reply of some type. If it ...


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I have said   2/18/2000

Abstinance is the best policy-- not what I think. Just postponment. I have made a promise to myself to wait until I am ready. The pressure on teens today from the media, peers, etc. to have sex is huge. It is a pressure that no one should have to face. So many teens are falling into the pressure trap too that it is upsetting. So many lives have been ruined beacause they weren't taught ...


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Saying what you mean.   2/17/2000

If you go out with someone, and find that you don't really want the same things. Go ahead and be upfront with them about it before they get too emotionally involved. It isn't fair to continue a relationship if both parties are not in agreement as to what is expected. Just be polite and tell them "See ya".


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Response to   1/23/2000

Hi all, <br> The advice (if you will) that I would give to "More ResponsesThan You Can Handle" is a couple of things. I think one key ingredient is communication. Are any of these wemon mature enough to handle the truth? I think in a situation like this you can simply explain what is going on with you. After that it would be up to each of them to make a decision about ...


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Let's Put it in Context   1/18/2000

Saying "No, thanks". Two little words, yet they can generate so much angst in the "dumpee" and occasionally guilt in the "dumper". It's understandable, yet in a way so unnecessary. <br> My answer to these problems is to put the whole thing in context. For a start, whoever says no" in a relationship that is not going to work is doing the other party a favour. Take it from one ...


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when yes maybe means no?   1/13/2000

hellomy name is esilio. being new to this system. i am finding it pretty lame some of the excuses (or lack there of) when you think you have found someone suitable. nw i am not petty but when someone asks for something and then promises a reply back. well u think great. but as after seeing the foto, these people nevr reply back, well it can be a bit discouraging, cant it. perhaps some ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
More responses than you can handle?   1/12/2000

More responses than you can handle? I?ve run into a sticky situation recently. I had sent E-mailmessages to several ladies at once. Nothing particularly exciting, provocative or ?deep?, just the standard bio and invitation to write back. I really didn?t expect to hear back from all the mailboxes my message was sent to. Each lady?s profile was concise, intelligently written and of ...


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Honesty is the best policy   1/10/2000

Honesty is the best policy, but it should be tempered with kindness. I have written to many people via email, who after a few mails seemed to drop off the face of the earth. They did not bother to tell me what (if anything) had happened, or explain why they no longer wanted to correspond with me. Would you want someone to do that to you? If not, then please don't do this to other people. ...


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It Shouldn't Affect Your Life   1/9/2000

I think that if you or your date says no in the course of the date or relationship, that it shouldn't really have that much effect on it.Just cause they said no doesn't mean your life is going to end.Just enjoy the date and hope to make plans for another.There is nothing wrong with waiting for that one time when they actually say yes.Personally i think that waiting makes it more special and ...


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Why You Should Say No to Sex   1/3/2000

I hope the following information will help you make wiser choices when it comes to sexual contact. Each time you choose sexual contact with a new partner you significantly increase your chance of disease. The desire for sexual contact is very human but needs to be handled with awareness of the risks and the appropriate precautions. The hazards of sexually transmitted diseases should make ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 51 Votes ,4.94 Score
Didnt even say good bye   12/10/1999

Well it starts like this...I chated with this female in San Fransisco for quite a while.Then she gave me her phone number.We talked alot,got to know each other fairly well.I told her to come by my job and meet.I didnt really think she would.But she did! We meet and we like what we both see,so we say we will try going out some time.We dont have the same days off so I went to her place off work and ...


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   1999-12-04

A few months back I joined friendfinder and I wrote to a couple of profiles that made me feel something. I wanted to get to know someone in a far away place so that I might have the excuse to travel in the future so I chose men from the United Kingdom a place I had always wanted to visit. I thought that at least I might find a great pen pal who could tell me things about his country as well as getting to know him. The first week of my membership I met a man in the age group that I was interested in and I will call him Bob. Now Bob and I hit it off right from the start and soon our letters were on a very personel level ,writting many times a day. Soon we were chatting on Yahoo Messenger just like two teenagers falling in love for the first time. Then the cyber sex began to creep in. I said no and like a fox he made his move in another direction and before I would know it there would be something sexual going on. Now if that is what both parties are interested in then go for it but in my case it only served to frustrate me more with him getting just what he was after. This went on for sometime and because I thought I really liked him I relented and engaged in what I thought would make him happy. But we were never talking about the things that had drawed me to him in the first place, the relationship had become CYBERED and I tried a couple of times to guide it back into the right direction. Like I said if it is what you both are looking for then that is fine but if you don't feel right about it just say no! Why go to bed confused and frustrated while he is on his end sleeping like a baby with a smile on his face.


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It makes you wonder...   12/2/1999

I went to Prague on holiday all by myself. It was the first time and it was very exciting. On my way there the people around me were just talking the Tsjech language so it made no sense to me at all. Even the busdriver couldn’t speak English or German. The fact that I couldn’t hear what they were talking about made me feel even more alone. So after I finally settled down there in ...


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Hearing back from someone you said "No Thanks" to   12/2/1999

I have written to guys after I looked at their photo and realized immediately that he didn't "do it" for me; I've written to them and said "No Thanks," only to hear back from them that I am terrible person [for not being attracted to them]. Some people are just here to upset other people, it's hard to know who the real, regular and nice people are ... if you don't hear back from "her" then keep ...


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hot like the sun and wet like the rain   11/30/1999

hello from turkiye if u wanna good ant the best friend he's not very far away just under your finfers just write to me see u soon kisses


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Guys...just be honest with her...   11/28/1999

I just wanted to ad to the topic of "Saying No Thanks". First of all, lets face it, even with using a service like Friendfinder, dating is NOT an exact science. Sometimes you are going to meet someone that is not really who you thought they would be, or who you just don't really click with. That is just the way life goes. I have found that many of the ladies I have met are people that I really ...


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saying ohh no!   11/23/1999

How do we say ohh no to someone? How do we say no when we really mean ohh yes yes? Sometimes we really want people to talk, to visit, to share things with us. So truy saying yes ohh yess.


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A Welcome No   11/14/1999

We live in a busy world but does that mean the concept of common courtesy has to be sacrificed? It seems to be the case,maybe the annomity of the net contributes to it. A brief message takes seconds if you cut & paste it & lets the person who spent time writing to you know where they stand. I just recieved my first reply from eight emails & it was a polite brief no thanks,sure better than no ...


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It hurt a lot   11/10/1999

I went on a date with a man that I met on line. He took me out for dinner, drinks, coffee, and more drinks. We spent five hours together and he told me he didn't want the date to end. We kissed and said good bye. He later told me he was not interested in me. He never told me why he was not interested even after I asked. This hurt a lot and the feedback may have been helpful. It would have ...


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just say no   11/9/1999

i was on my 3 date with this really cool guy while we went back to his place his parents were out of town we were just going to talk and then we started makeing out while then he was undoing my shirt while i didnt do anything i just let him do it i wanted to have sex so bad but before in knew it he was in me with no condom i just let it happen and now i am pergant when that happens just say no


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Which one could it be?*!   9/18/1999

I've always been told to be very careful while on the internet.Then I found out about friend finder.com....I was so excited yet afraid.I met several different people that seemed absulutly irisitable.Most wanted me to meet them but my parents would never agree to it. I was so mad,but decided it was all for the best.Till I met Edickson Frias.He is ...


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Saying 'NO' can be as easy as saying YES   7/22/1999

Saying NO can be easyer than saying YES It's easy to say yes to things,but when it comes down to saying NO how many of us can openly say we could do it without any hesitation. Sex is one of the one things,that when it comes down to saying NO we can't,that is why so many people have under age sex. Hear are some tips on saying 'NO' Biuld up your confidence,if you have to,stand in frount ...


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saying no, somwone's gotta do it   5/31/1999

Saying no is hard, but someone’s got to do it. That’s where you come in. I’m writing this to tell you that it is ok to say no. If you are with someone that is pushing you to so something that you don't want to do, then you tell them no. There is a list of things that you should say no to, but I’ll list the basics. The first one is drinking. It is bad for your ...


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At least say " No Thanks"   5/10/1999

So you finally find the person who you think could be interesting. You've been searching the lists and checking each bio to make sure they are at least somewhat compatible and in some cases you think, just maybe, this could be someone special. Now this has taken some time because being a standard member, you can only look at so many profiles a day and you want to be sure about your choice. You ...


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I didn't think it was a crime   4/28/1999

This story is going to be hard for me to tell. If it hasn’t happened to you, it’s happened to someone you know, even if you don’t know that it’s happened. I started dating my ex, Thomas, in November. Yes, he was my knight in shining armor, coming to take me away from everything, so it seemed. Things were going better than I could have ever expected. By month two, ...


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I don't understand why people find it so hard to say "no".   4/25/1999

i might be a little close-minded, but i don't see the difficulty in saying "no" to someone of the oppisite sex. I think it's all about self-respect. If you have enough self-respect, you won't let someone violate you. i mean, guys have tried to pull stuff on me that i didn't want to do. Well, first of all, it was something that i wasn't ready to do. Second, i wasn't going out with him. Third, all ...


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A Guy's Worst Nightmare   4/16/1999

Its the worst thing that can possibly happen to an ambitious, goal-seeking suitor: asking the girl of your dreams on a date, and hearing that nasty, but sometimes inevitable, “No.” Those two little letters form a word which packs much heat when used in the context of dating. An otherwise stable, confident man can be withered down to a self-loathing idler, a minituarized version ...


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NO THANK YOU   4/13/1999

SAYING "NO THANKS" SAYING THESE TWO WORDS CAN GET YOU ALOT OF PLACES. FRIENDS THAT ASK YOU TO TRY SOMETHING [EXA.DRUGS] ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS JUST SAY NO AND WALK AWAY. THEY WILL TRY THERE BEST TO TRY TO GET YOU TO TRY THE DRUG BY SAYING THINGS LIKE " TRY JUST A LITTLE A LITTLE WONT HURT" BUT BE SMART AND WALK AWAY. THINK AND SAY NO, AND AFTER AWHILE THEY WILL WISH THAT THEY NEVER STARTED ...


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Let them down gently, but let them down.   4/11/1999

I thought that I was going to be doing the nice thing when I just ignored this girl, instead it made things ever worse than I could have ever imagined. It all happened a few years ago while I was working at this fast food restaurant. One day, I was working alongside a friend of mine, when this woman standing by us asked me if I had a girlfriend. Now, I didn't give it much thought - I never ...


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Saying 'NO' to the persistent   4/3/1999

It really amazes me no end how some men can be so persistent and won't take no for an answer...their hide is so thick that 'No' doesn't seem to penetrate through... it could be due to all that long hair covering their ears, or they could have gotten out of bed with cotten stuck in their ears...still it's really amazing how they manage to hear certain words and not others.... when I was a just ...


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choosing the right person   3/12/1999

hello young teens,well i know that it is one time when u guys & girls r really keen on finding yourself a date, but it's the most important thing to choose the right person.so always be careful on whether u know that person real well or not ,if u don't know him,then do enquire about him by your friend or somebody else,& make the right choice at the right time. this is not just an ...


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Why to say "No Thanks" To Drugs   3/5/1999

All Though it may seem that drugs are cool it really isn't. If you become hooked you will end up a washed up "bum" who will do just about anything to get high. People like this are poor and live horrible lives. "It is Who you are." and it should definately NOT BE "What you do" It is obvious that a person who spend all their money on drugs will not have a good life. If you are ...


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How to brush off signals   1/31/1999

There is nothing worst than a girl that you don't like, likes you. How do you break it to them gently? Well, I have noticed the strong signals and you just play dumb. IE: My friend Jackie liked me. She sent the strongest signals. She wanted me. She would be saying who she likes and she would go like this "Jeff, Chad , and somebody". This was as clear as a bell that she liked me (besides my ...


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Graceful way to AVOID octopus hugs FROM men, for M or F   1/29/1999

The man is warm and wonderful and you decided to go for an embrace. Suddenly you are stuck with a human octopus. Or just as bad, you don’t know how to change from simple hug to a little more encouraging but with you arms already around his shoulders there is no where to go but down and that is not the message you want to give yet. Well, as a cheerful survivor of hundreds of ...


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Saying no isn't as hard as it may seem   1/26/1999

Saying no isn't as hard as you may think. It all depends on how hard you make it for yourself. For instance, if someone asks you out and you say, "I'll think about it" when you really want to say no then all it does is make it harder. You end up thinking about ways to tell them you don't want to go out with them and stalling. Eventually you end up with a really lame excuse why you can't go out ...


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Saying no is a BIG deal.   1/17/1999

Many people when asked for a date/relationship often respond poorly. Many will simply say no, many will say yes, but even more people than those two combined will say maybe. Maybe is the worst answer in the world. I mean that literally. Time and time again I hear one of my friends talking about asking that special person to go out with them. At least 7 out of 10 times the person asked ...


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The Mr. NOT Right Rejection Letter   1/16/1999

If everyone else's experiences have been like mine, you've met some VERY nice men and women and you've met some "doozies" - well, "doozies" according to your own standards. Sometimes, it's very difficult to figure out just how to say no.... So, here's some helpful 'one-liners' that you can use (and be amused) to make it a little easier and more fun.... enjoy!!! The Mr. Right Rejection ...


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Keep your "willy" where it belongs   1/12/1999

The hardest thing for a guy to do is to not have sex. His "willy" is wild and crazy and when there is an opening for him to see himself in, he usually takes it. Usually is the key word though. Coming from a guy's point of view, I know that having sex can be fun, but don't let it be with the wrong person. Everyone loves to party and everyone loves to get with guys, but the toughest thing that ...


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Some like It rough   1/7/1999

If you are going to break-up, or deny someone the oppurtunity to date you:sometimes you got to be upfront. Some people just do not understand you when you give them an excuse like,"I am washing my hair." I am living proof. I have to admit I am gulible when it comes to the dating scene. If you tell me you are busy; I think you are busy. What I am trying to say is there are nice ways to be ...


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how about a little honesty   1/4/1999

hows this for a new years resolution....lets be honest!!! you know we've all done it. we've met the person that we have been corresponding to and well we just arent interested. instead of beating around the bush why dont we just tactfully tell this person hey it was really nice meeting you but there is just no chemistry there. or hey if you would really like to be blunt why not just say hey ...


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No means No   1/2/1999

Saying no thanks can be hard sometimes when you may think you are ready, but there is a little voice in your head saying don't do it. Listen to that voice, because even if you are having the slightest doubt, you are not ready.


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What do you mean no?   12/30/1998

In some situations saying no just doesn’t feel like the right thing to do. I’m sure you have felt it before. Isn’t it what people do? You feel you should just let whatever happen. Yet something inside of you knows that you shouldn’t let it happen. That “something” is reason. If you don’t listen to it, you will most likely end up greatly ...


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Why Shouldn't I?   12/26/1998

Why not take drugs? Why not have sex? Why shouldn't I drop out of school? I feel that These are most of the common questions many teens ask themselves. Askiing questions like these and thier answers will make the difference of what type of life you will live. Making the right chose may seem easy now, but when it happens alot of things will come up. Like if I say no other people will ...


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How to Say No to Clinton !   12/24/1998

(1) Dammit no Bill, Ken Starr knows where I live ... (2) I'll swallow like you inhale buddy ! (3) Mr.Clinton I'm sorry but that's my favourite dress. (4) Daaaaaaad stop it !!! *g*


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saying no thanks to sex   12/13/1998

If you are under age and a guy asks you to have sex say no, If you dont know a guy very well and he asks you to have sex tell him that you are sorry and that you dont want to have sex with him yet tell him that you and him should get to know eachother a little better and if he insists on having sex tell him to get a life and find a prostetute cause you arent one.


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Survival   11/10/1998

We didn't see it coming. Life was as usual. We met everyday after school - went out, talked on the phone. The only sign was that we seemed to be bickering over small matters ever so often. On that day, we met outside the school library. Just as we were about to go, my old friend from Secondary school bumped into me and we exchanged "Hi"s. It was so long since we've met and I was so ...


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Say No to the Office Beau   11/7/1998

There he (she) is sitting across the desk from you. You get each other coffee, share a pencil sharpener, cover each other for lunch, but is it okay to take it further. DON"T DO IT! I have seen dozens and dozens of people try to have a relationship with someone that they work with. Time and time again it has blown up in their faces. It doesn't matter if it's a peer, a superior, or ...


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Drugs - How to say NO   10/9/1998

We live in a society that is filled with drugs. I know because I used to use them. Drugs are created to give us an unnatural high. This feels great at first but soon becomes a drag. The problem is how not to start using drugs. The word DRUGS is commonly used to describe things like cocaine, heroine, dope and many more. We find that we are introduced to drugs by the television. We sometimes ...


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No Thanks the best   9/16/1998

Today the usage of drugs is worldwide.It depends a lot on the user himself.Some may say yes or no to drugs.If drugs is being use in the medical purpose in curing the sick than it is okay as it is of good intent. However if drugs is taken just for the sick of fun than it will be harmful and dangerous.Teenager especially must learn to say no thanks to drugs if they wish to survive ...


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JUST SAY NO!!   8/24/1998

Hi, This is a letter to tell people how important I think it is not to let peer pressure bother you or others. I knew this person that grew up in a rough neighborough and he was a good kid untill he got around 14 when he started going to highschool and that was when he was first offered to experiment with pot, but he decided to say NO, all of the kids bugged him for saying no but he ...


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Why I'm Not Ready For Sex   8/22/1998

My best friend did it when she was 15, but I haven't done it yet, mostly because I haven't found the right person. I feel like I should like him a lot, and he should care about me a lot too. Most of my boyfriends don't last that long so it doesn't really get to that point....Sometimes I feel like I'm anxious to have sex but then I realize I'm not. When I stop and think about it ...


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What They Really Mean   8/6/1998

What Woman Say, And What Do They Really Mean? 1) They say: can we just be friends? They mean: there is not a chance in hell that I'd ever want to go out with you! 2) They say: I need some space They mean: I don't want to spend all of my time with you! 3) They say: No pizza's fine. They mean: cheap jerk. 4) They say: I don't want a boyfriend ...


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Navigating Through the Internet Swamp   8/1/1998

Most of us have had the experience--you get anonymous email, an anonymous ICQ, or a response from Friendfinder from a person you're pretty dubious about. There are ways around the rare-but-possible negative results--net stalking do happen, and flames are more prevalent than those on a steakhouse grill. The following are some tips for letting that secret admirer go. 1) Find out more ...


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Its OK to say "NO" to SEX   8/1/1998

From my personal experience: SEX CAN WAIT. I know some of you may feel that its the only way you can truly get close to your bf/gf, but sometimes it can only do the opposite. I once heard "Sex can either make the relationship better, or it will make it worse." Unfortunately, the latter is the more common among teens. So many things can go wrong. This isnt going to be an article about ...


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Does he ever go too far?   7/12/1998

The best way to say no to a guy is to say, "NO!" Be firm and say it like you mean it, otherwise they won't take you seriously. It's your body and no one else has the right to tell you how to use it. If you're not ready, you'll know. Don't let him convince you that you are if you know you aren't. Date is becoming all too familiar these days, don't become another statistic. ...


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Saying NO   7/3/1998

Hello Kids all over the world. If somebody offers you a drink or smoke say no.


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Professor No   6/10/1998

Okay, so you've finally started the dating scene again and found some enticing prospects online. You decide to talk on the phone, and then to meet someone in person. You do all the safe things - go to a public place, have a nice dinner together ... it's clear that this other person is VERY excited about you ... but you .... well, you're flat not interested. How do you say no? Use a ...


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I'm sorry, missed the word "perfect" in your profile...   5/30/1998

While this may be great advice (in my mind) you may disagree, write your own. First we look to the familiar answer to the personal --- "I saw your ad, sounds like we might have something in common, check my profile, if you like what you see, send me a note." --- (Close enough anyway.) At this point you just don't send anything and ignore them, while not the nicest way, seems acceptable to ...


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No thanks to what, who ???!!!   5/27/1998

Hi! Saying NO thanks is not a difficult word to say. There are many things which you want to say No to something you don't wish to do. Have some courage to say NO when somebody offer you DRUGS, or Cigratte etc.... There also some shy people who always say no thanks to whatever offer they recieve.....maybe in a party, when somebody offer them drinks or food. They tends to reject by ...


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Smoke-free mouth   5/22/1998

Hard to say no! Well, hear this one out first! Smoker: Want a cigarette? Victim: Nah, I don't think so Smoker: come on, chicken! Victim : No! You won't get me to do that smoky thing by calling me a chicken! * walks away* This is how one should stand up for oneself. Never ever give in to peer pressure! You can also stay away from the "bad influence " and keep your lungs ...


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No one needs to go through this.....   5/19/1998

For some reason, my article pasted like this...please feel free to arrange it as needed. Note: All characters' names have been changed for protection When I first moved in to my co-op, I was ecstatic. I was meeting all kinds of new people and making friends at an alarming rate! This article is about one of those "friends" that I met. Her name is Jenna. She was tall, beautiful and a ...


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Saying NO !   5/19/1998

Have you ever had one of those times when your friends asked you to do something you don’t feel like doing; but simply don’t know how to say it without hurting thier feelings ? Or when your mom buys you this ugly looking outfit, and she looked proud when you tried them on, that you can’t bear to tell her that you hate it ? Well, what are you going to do ? How do you say ...


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Are You weak?   5/13/1998

A major factor that I have found in my experiences to be somewhat responsible for a great deal of pain is called "peer pressure". We are somehow almost forced to actually believe that we are no good unless everyone else thinks that we are good & this sad state of affairs so often causes us to do a great deal of terrible things that mess up our lives, just so we can save "face". Be good, & ...


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my ways to say "no" to a person.   5/6/1998

how to say no. 1. if you're in a different city that you don't go to often just say that you're gay. 2. if they're gay say that you're straight 3.say that you'll call them but "forget" their number. 4. just say you're with somebody at the time 5. say you're busy 6. just say you're not interested.


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Giving NO or Taking NO from sb.   4/12/1998

In case you are going to have some natural fun or enjoyment with somebody and you receve "NO". Don't you worry its could be YES, but remember it could be "NO". So how to decide which NO is in negative sence? Well for this you have to be careful in the beginning for responce and you have to listen very deeply that from where the word is comming. You can guess that if there is a NO with rough ...


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Giving NO or Taking NO from sb.   4/12/1998

In case you are going to have some natural fun or enjoyment with somebody and you receve "NO". Don't you worry its could be YES, but remember it could be "NO". So how to decide which NO is in negative sence? Well for this you have to be careful in the beginning for responce and you have to listen very deeply that from where the word is comming. You can guess that if there is a NO with rough ...


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How To Say "No Thanks"   4/10/1998

Telling someone that they are not appealing to you or that you are not interested can be difficult. Most of us don't want to hurt someone's feelings when we feel turned off. Often we pretend that they are not there and maybe they will go away. That doesn't always work. The person on the other end may keep contacting you for an answer. Then it becomes harder to explain what you probably ...


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Mean what you say, and say what you mean!   3/23/1998

If you've tried everything and it still doesn't work, have a good friend whom you trust and who he/she knows is close to you tell him/her that "No" means "No". Leave no room for guessing. Sometimes, you gotta be cruel to be kind in the long run! Best of Luck!


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How to break it to them nicely!   3/23/1998

There are many different ways to break it to the person nicely. But I guess one of the most frequently used ones is "No, I think it's better if we just stay friends." Or something like "I don't want to take the chance of ruining our friendship by dating." Now we all know that these are quite common remarks, but we also know that it's just crap. We're just trying to make them feel better, ...


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A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE!   3/22/1998

I consider myself to be pretty straight forward. I am not into drugs of any sort, except a few drinks occasionally, do not patronise gambling or pay for sex. This last point is pretty controversial. The question is if you take out a female, feed and tank her up with a few gin & tonics to start with, a couple of bottles of good full bodied red wine in between the courses, pour a Cointreau or ...


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Stalked by a 7 year old   3/19/1998

My... interesting... experience started when I went to babysit my next door neighbor's son, Michael. It was the first time I had babysat for him, and since I wanted him to like me I brought some candy and a GI Joe figurine (yes, I spoil my clients . Anyway, after I had presented my gifts, we went to watch his favorite movie. We both sat on the couch, but ever so slowly he inched his way ...


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ADDICTED TO SAYING "YES"?   2/28/1998

As a friend, I would like to advise all you out there, especially the girls against being addicted to saying "yes". Most girls say yes to lifts from strangers hence resulting in their being kidnapped. Also, girls find themselves accepting gifts from men most of the time. This could prove dangerous if the man that you are involved with demands that with every gift that he gives to you ...


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It's Alright to Say No.   2/27/1998

For most girls, the first sexual experiance is exciting, mysterious, and can also be painful. Most teenage girls give in to sex because of here it comes...peer pressure. Not only peer pressure, but pressure from her boyfriend, because " If she loves me, she'll let me". That is not always the case. If you are not sure you're ready to go "all the way", don't. If a sexual experiance makes you ...


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Do Not Leave Them Hanging   2/25/1998

we all here at FriendFinders get email from others that we may not be attracted to..Now what do we do about it..Do we just trash it and go on or do we answer it. I myself try to care for others feelings..I think it is better to at least acknowledge the email and try to be as pleasant as possibel..this way the person knows that it has been received. There is nothing worst than not knowing..State ...


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Not that far that fast   2/24/1998

Hello everyone ever been caught in a cituaton with a date that you were uncomfortable with? Alot of people have. And saddly enough alot of people just dont know how to say No, or are afraid if they do the person wont like them anymore. Well here are a couple of tips to help you out. Ill tell you about an experiene I Just had to give you an example. If it wasant bad enough it was a blind date ...


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No to drugs!   2/14/1998

Many teenagers around the world is taking drugs. Some of them for the very first time. Unfortunatly many of them dies as a result of the drugs. As a supervisor for young teenagers that is on probation I often see waht drugs can do to a nice person. One moment they are friendly, but as soon as they get a hold of some narcotics they are transformed into aggressive lunatics. To all of you that is ...


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How to tell him/her No when you dont want to date them at the moment!   1/19/1998

When a man or woman asks you out and you do not want to go out with them say No thanks or change the subject and ask him or her if they would like to go do something else. Tell him or her you like the friend ship the way it is and you would not want to ruin it. Or tell them that you would like to get to know each other better and you two could become a closer couple. You should be polite about it ...


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Why can I not say "NO" to my partner.   1/16/1998

You have difficulty saying, "No," because you are worried that s/he will be hurt if you do. <P> You care about him/her. And if you're like most people, you're also concerned about what s/he may think of you if you refuse his/her requests. Everyone wants to be liked, especially by the people they care about. <P> However, if you choose your words carefully, you can refuse him/her ...


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