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lokie95 54 M
1  Article
Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen..   2/6/2007

There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship. I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through. I know we had physical attraction, but it takes more then just that. Yeah we made the mistake of trying to stay just friends, but it was too soon, because it ended up in disaster.We kept bouncing back ...


0 Comments, 264 Views, 49 Votes ,6.57 Score
TonyMccoy 65 M
1  Article
RESPECT   7/1/2006

Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately, everyone cannot be satisfied. Finding, and then connecting with the person of their desire. Desire is a very powerful emotion, and it sometimes gets the best of us. I have a few words of advice to you all. "Desire itself, ...


1 Comments, 122 Views, 20 Votes ,6.06 Score
GMan2002 55 M
3  Articles
Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest!   2/6/2007

I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to tell either a lady or man that they seem like a great person, but they are just not exactly what you are looking for personally.
It is also good manners to wish them every success and all the ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
8455 49 M
15  Articles
The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks"   3/7/2007

Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that time or times, and asking yourself why? How come we just can't except it. It's usually because we know, that we mean well and am confident in who we are. Being told "No Thanks" is mind breaking, because we start ...


2 Comments, 255 Views, 21 Votes ,5.35 Score
papa_chubby 55 M
29  Articles
Whats with not being direct   7/7/2008

I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure out what their thinking. What is that about? Anybody?


9 Comments, 115 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
fitzer25 43 M
6  Articles
girls need to be straight up   8/23/2007

girls when they don't have the connection to the guy they need to tell them straight up they are not interested. I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you think you have a chance


3 Comments, 56 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Tais_S 56 F
7  Articles
Why?   4/29/2007

Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks". But very often the men accept these words as "Please, try again" and continue more urgent. And finaly when the woman says emphatically NO, the men get angry.
Why, dear men? "No, thanks" mean exactly NO. And no need to look for another meaning.


1 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
Dutch07 50 M
7  Articles
Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino?   5/1/2007

Do amicably break-ups exist?

Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted' with good advice from firends and colleagues about amicable break-ups.

Is there such thing? What does it say about the couple breaking up? Do they still love each other maybe?

Reversely, they say love can turn to hate ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
papa_chubby 55 M
29  Articles
sometimes no means more than no   6/26/2006

Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO! Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told me, she didnt want him getting any strange ideas.
Ha!


0 Comments, 81 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
MistressM7 41 F
1  Article
Telling it like it is...   9/8/2006

A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are also taught that people do play games like this, so often, others persist in trying to get a "yes." But how many "No"s do they have to hear to figure out that no matter what they do, the answer is no?


1 Comments, 256 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
SirBri 59 M
10  Articles
Delete the message and move on...   10/1/2007

Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them why you do not want them, just delete their message and move on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of someone who was interested in you. I would rather not know than be told why.


4 Comments, 53 Views, 16 Votes ,0.34 Score