Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen.. 2/6/2007|
There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't
seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship.
I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through.
I know we had physical attraction, but it takes more then
just that. Yeah we made the mistake of trying to stay just
friends, but it was too soon, because it ended up in disaster.We
kept bouncing back ...
1 Comments, 256 Views,
Telling it like it is... 9/8/2006|
A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given
dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want
someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are
also taught that people do play games like this, so often,
others persist in trying to get a "yes." But
how many "No"s do they have to hear to figure
out that no matter what they do, the answer is no?
3 Comments, 256 Views,
The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks" 3/7/2007|
Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats
even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have
all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that
time or times, and asking yourself why? How come we just
can't except it. It's usually because we know,
that we mean well and am confident in who we are. Being told
"No Thanks" is mind breaking, because we start ...
7 Comments, 255 Views,
Just say no! 2/7/2011|
Some people just can't take no for an answer. However,
there are many ways to remedy this problem:
1. pepper spray
2. statement claiming v.d.
3. claim pre- or post-op transexuality
4. tell them you'd love to, but have to check with Mom
5. state you're a priest or a nun
6. tell them you've fantasized of that moment from
the tree outside their bedroom window for months
5 Comments, 206 Views,
Do the Right Thing 2/25/2007|
If a guy does not interest you simply tell him thank you but
you are not interested. By choosing not to answer calls
you are leading him on and it is not helping either one of
you. Show some respect and he will move on without bothering
7 Comments, 138 Views,
Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each
others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a
time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately,
everyone cannot be satisfied. Finding, and then connecting
with the person of their desire. Desire is a very powerful
emotion, and it sometimes gets the best of us. I have a few
words of advice to you all. "Desire itself, ...
2 Comments, 122 Views,
Whats with not being direct 7/7/2008|
I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their
mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure
out what their thinking. What is that about? Anybody?
12 Comments, 115 Views,
How to say no 6/26/2006|
First, be sure that you really want to say no. If you are not
quite sure, tell the other person that you need time to think.
Whatever the question may be, it is not worth disturbing
your emotional/mental health.
Second, if you are quite sure that you really want to say
no, then make sure that the other person knows that. That
means, follow your words through with an ...
1 Comments, 96 Views,
sometimes no means more than no 6/26/2006|
Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked
by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO!
Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told
me, she didnt want him getting any strange ideas.
3 Comments, 81 Views,
MUY DIFICIL IDENTIFICAR 1/23/2006|
Tengo 45 años de edad. Lo lamentable de mi caso es que cada
vez conozco menos a las mujeres. Sin embargo, espro algún
día, realmente llegar a conocerlas. Pero en mi experiencia
lo que si me queda claro, es que, la edad de una mujer juega
mucho en una relación: Existen la que entregan todo por
amor (las menores a 35 años) y aquellas que siempre esperan
algo a cambio (las mayores a 35 ...
2 Comments, 79 Views,
Is there something wrong here? 4/11/2007|
I have recently been receiving alot of winks from asian
ladies aged 18-19. They say they have read my profile so
they have to know that I am 47 years. I have children older
than these ladies. Do they really think that I would be interested
in hooking up with them? I am fairly new to this site and I
do not know if this is the norm.
7 Comments, 75 Views,
Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest! 2/6/2007|
I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully
open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether
or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to tell either a lady or man that they seem like
a great person, but they are just not exactly what you are
looking for personally.
It is also good manners to wish them every success and all
5 Comments, 67 Views,
Es el amor de mi mejor amiga 11/12/2006|
Es un chico guapo, un abogado de éxito, un soltero de oro.
Desde hace más de un año, mi mejor amiga, que está loquita
por él y es guapísima, una chica muy llamativa, lo ve los
fines de semana por la noche en la discoteca, y entonces
se besan y se acarician y tienen sexo rápido. El no tiene
deseos de verla durante el día y tampoco es la ùnica chica
con la que tiene relaciones. Yo lo ...
1 Comments, 62 Views,
girls need to be straight up 8/23/2007|
girls when they don't have the connection to the guy
they need to tell them straight up they are not interested.
I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you
think you have a chance
3 Comments, 55 Views,
Despídete al menos 11/20/2004|
Creo que cuando se empieza una relación debe ser sincera.Si
te ha gustado, por qué y esas cosas.Luego los emails se
suceden con éxito y parece que todo funciona. Pero muchos dejan de escribir sin motivo aparente.Sería
bueno obtener una respuesta, como "mira he encontrado
a otra" o "no tengo las ideas claras".En fin, algo que no
te haga pensar "pero ahora qué he hecho" o "le habrá ...
1 Comments, 55 Views,
Delete the message and move on... 10/1/2007|
Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them
why you do not want them, just delete their message and move
on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of
someone who was interested in you. I would rather not know
than be told why.
7 Comments, 53 Views,
Just say no, forget the thanks.
6 Comments, 51 Views,
Si una persona no te interesa... 3/30/2007|
...lo mejor es decírselo claramente a la cara y decirle
que como amigos bien, pero no como pareja. Eso puede crear
algo de tensión, pero demuestra la sinceridad de una persona.
2 Comments, 44 Views,
must be NO to listen for lie talk from woman ,
NOt to let your self as you are believe her talk ( or him talk
2 Comments, 37 Views,
No Thanks to you "I think"? 5/30/2007|
This is a very good question... Saying "no thanks"
is pretty cut and dry yet it becomes very confusing(for
instance ~Here~) when the party is started by the girl and
she ~winks~ or puts you in her ~hotlist~ or better yet goes
the distance and even email you and when you respond there
is no reply "except night crikets and frogs"
so several days may go by and the act starts all over again
and you ...
2 Comments, 30 Views,
NO GRACIAS, ES PARTE DE TU VIDA QUE TE PUEDE AYUDAR 2/24/2007|
HOLA, SOY UNA CHICA DE 18 AÑOS DE MEXICO, LO QUE LES TENGO
QUE CONTAR ES ALGO QUE LES PUEDE AYUDAR A MUCHOS JOVENES,
SABEN A PESAR DE MI EDAD NUNCA HE TENIDO UN NOVIO, Y NO ES POR
QUE NO QUIERA SIMPLEMENTE POR QUE NADIE ME LO HA PEDIDO,
TAL VEZ ES POR QUE LA MAYORIA DE LOS CHAVOS QUE ME GUSTAN PIENSAN
QUE SOY PAYASA, Y NO SE POR QUE YA QUE SOY MUY BUENO ONDA. UNA
OCASION HICIMOS UNA FIESTA ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal
if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks".
But very often the men accept these words as "Please,
try again" and continue more urgent. And finaly when
the woman says emphatically NO, the men get angry.
Why, dear men? "No, thanks" mean exactly NO.
And no need to look for another meaning.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
When to be wary of meeting that special someone. 10/2/2006|
Even though you have found that special "someone" on the
net and you think you know all you need to know about him/her,
please keep safety in mind.
1) Remember, you do not really know who this person is.
They could be some kind of psycho or something.
2) If you still want to meet the person, make sure the
meeting place is public. While this is not a ...
1 Comments, 25 Views,
Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino? 5/1/2007
Do amicably break-ups exist?
Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes
angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted'
with good advice from firends and colleagues about amicable
Is there such thing? What does it say about the couple breaking
up? Do they still love each other maybe?
Reversely, they say love can turn to hate ...
2 Comments, 23 Views,