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Despídete al menos   20/11/2004

Creo que cuando se empieza una relación debe ser sincera.Si te ha gustado, por qué y esas cosas.Luego los emails se suceden con éxito y parece que todo funciona. Pero muchos dejan de escribir sin motivo aparente.Sería bueno obtener una respuesta, como "mira he encontrado a otra" o "no tengo las ideas claras".En fin, algo que no te haga pensar "pero ahora qué he hecho" o "le habrá ...


1 Comments, 55 Views, 191 Votes ,6.94 Score
Si una persona no te interesa...   30/3/2007

...lo mejor es decírselo claramente a la cara y decirle que como amigos bien, pero no como pareja. Eso puede crear algo de tensión, pero demuestra la sinceridad de una persona.


2 Comments, 44 Views, 177 Votes ,6.99 Score
Es el amor de mi mejor amiga   12/11/2006

Es un chico guapo, un abogado de éxito, un soltero de oro. Desde hace más de un año, mi mejor amiga, que está loquita por él y es guapísima, una chica muy llamativa, lo ve los fines de semana por la noche en la discoteca, y entonces se besan y se acarician y tienen sexo rápido. El no tiene deseos de verla durante el día y tampoco es la ùnica chica con la que tiene relaciones. Yo lo ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 76 Votes ,6.26 Score
NO GRACIAS, ES PARTE DE TU VIDA QUE TE PUEDE AYUDAR   24/2/2007

HOLA, SOY UNA CHICA DE 18 AÑOS DE MEXICO, LO QUE LES TENGO QUE CONTAR ES ALGO QUE LES PUEDE AYUDAR A MUCHOS JOVENES, SABEN A PESAR DE MI EDAD NUNCA HE TENIDO UN NOVIO, Y NO ES POR QUE NO QUIERA SIMPLEMENTE POR QUE NADIE ME LO HA PEDIDO, TAL VEZ ES POR QUE LA MAYORIA DE LOS CHAVOS QUE ME GUSTAN PIENSAN QUE SOY PAYASA, Y NO SE POR QUE YA QUE SOY MUY BUENO ONDA. UNA OCASION HICIMOS UNA FIESTA ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 69 Votes ,6.42 Score
SirBri 50 M
10  Articles
Delete the message and move on...   1/10/2007

Rather than hurt someone's feelings by telling them why you do not want them, just delete their message and move on with your life. Have some respect for the feelings of someone who was interested in you. I would rather not know than be told why.


7 Comments, 52 Views, 60 Votes ,1.15 Score
Why is it that when I say no to someone they don't listen..   6/2/2007

There's someone I was dating at one time and it didn't seem like we had the chemistry to make it a long term relationship. I had tried to end it and it took at least 7 times to get through. I know we had physical attraction, but it takes more then just that. Yeah we made the mistake of trying to stay just friends, but it was too soon, because it ended up in disaster.We kept bouncing back ...


1 Comments, 256 Views, 51 Votes ,6.39 Score
MUY DIFICIL IDENTIFICAR   23/1/2006

Tengo 45 años de edad. Lo lamentable de mi caso es que cada vez conozco menos a las mujeres. Sin embargo, espro algún día, realmente llegar a conocerlas. Pero en mi experiencia lo que si me queda claro, es que, la edad de una mujer juega mucho en una relación: Existen la que entregan todo por amor (las menores a 35 años) y aquellas que siempre esperan algo a cambio (las mayores a 35 ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 51 Votes ,4.15 Score
How to say no   26/6/2006

First, be sure that you really want to say no. If you are not quite sure, tell the other person that you need time to think. Whatever the question may be, it is not worth disturbing your emotional/mental health. <br> Second, if you are quite sure that you really want to say no, then make sure that the other person knows that. That means, follow your words through with an ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 46 Votes ,6.39 Score
rjl4758 56 M
2  Articles
Is there something wrong here?   11/4/2007

I have recently been receiving alot of winks from asian ladies aged 18-19. They say they have read my profile so they have to know that I am 47 years. I have children older than these ladies. Do they really think that I would be interested in hooking up with them? I am fairly new to this site and I do not know if this is the norm.


7 Comments, 75 Views, 40 Votes ,1.56 Score
8455 39 M
15  Articles
The Real Question Is Why "No Thanks"   7/3/2007

Rejection is the hardest thing for us to deal with. Whats even harder is being rejected and not knowing why. We have all been rejected in some way or form. Can you remember that time or times, and asking yourself why? How come we just can't except it. It's usually because we know, that we mean well and am confident in who we are. Being told "No Thanks" is mind breaking, because we start ...


7 Comments, 255 Views, 39 Votes ,3.48 Score
GMan2002 45 M
3  Articles
Don't Waste Each Others Time, Be Polite and Honest!   6/2/2007

I think it is much better to be diplomatic, tactful, fully open and honest with people regarding attraction and whether or not you wish to even continue to communicate.
It is better to tell either a lady or man that they seem like a great person, but they are just not exactly what you are looking for personally.
It is also good manners to wish them every success and all the ...


5 Comments, 67 Views, 37 Votes ,4.17 Score
When to be wary of meeting that special someone.   2/10/2006

Even though you have found that special "someone" on the net and you think you know all you need to know about him/her, please keep safety in mind. <br> 1) Remember, you do not really know who this person is. They could be some kind of psycho or something. <br> 2) If you still want to meet the person, make sure the meeting place is public. While this is not a ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 36 Votes ,6.60 Score
QuartsOnCourts2 36 M
10  Articles
no   1/5/2007

Just say no, forget the thanks.


6 Comments, 51 Views, 34 Votes ,0.63 Score
papa_chubby 46 M
29  Articles
Whats with not being direct   7/7/2008

I've noticed some women, dont like to say whats on their mind. Instead they become angry when men can't figure out what their thinking. What is that about? Anybody?


12 Comments, 115 Views, 31 Votes ,3.14 Score
BuenoX30 39 M
1  Article
Do the Right Thing   25/2/2007

Ladies~ <br> If a guy does not interest you simply tell him thank you but you are not interested. By choosing not to answer calls you are leading him on and it is not helping either one of you. Show some respect and he will move on without bothering you.


7 Comments, 138 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
PappiTito 38 M
2  Articles
Just say no!   7/2/2011

Some people just can't take no for an answer. However, there are many ways to remedy this problem: 1. pepper spray 2. statement claiming v.d. 3. claim pre- or post-op transexuality 4. tell them you'd love to, but have to check with Mom first 5. state you're a priest or a nun 6. tell them you've fantasized of that moment from the tree outside their bedroom window for months 7. ...


5 Comments, 206 Views, 22 Votes ,1.93 Score
Telling it like it is...   8/9/2006

A number of times, people (mainly women) are even given dating advice by their friends/elders that if they want someone, play hard to get, and act uninterested. We are also taught that people do play games like this, so often, others persist in trying to get a "yes." But how many "No"s do they have to hear to figure out that no matter what they do, the answer is no?


3 Comments, 256 Views, 21 Votes ,2.75 Score
RESPECT   1/7/2006

Lot's or girls and guys, or men and women, view each others profiles on the site. And of course there comes a time when contacts are made between them. Unfortunately, everyone cannot be satisfied. Finding, and then connecting with the person of their desire. Desire is a very powerful emotion, and it sometimes gets the best of us. I have a few words of advice to you all. "Desire itself, ...


2 Comments, 122 Views, 20 Votes ,6.06 Score
fitzer25 33 M
6  Articles
girls need to be straight up   23/8/2007

girls when they don't have the connection to the guy they need to tell them straight up they are not interested. I hated when girls keep on flirting with you and make you think you have a chance


3 Comments, 55 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
WoryaII 51 M
3  Articles
No Thanks to you "I think"?   30/5/2007

This is a very good question... Saying "no thanks" is pretty cut and dry yet it becomes very confusing(for instance ~Here~) when the party is started by the girl and she ~winks~ or puts you in her ~hotlist~ or better yet goes the distance and even email you and when you respond there is no reply "except night crikets and frogs" so several days may go by and the act starts all over again and you ...


2 Comments, 30 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
georges43 35 M
5  Articles
talk   11/12/2006

must be NO to listen for lie talk from woman , NOt to let your self as you are believe her talk ( or him talk )


2 Comments, 37 Views, 17 Votes ,1.57 Score
Tais_S 47 F
7  Articles
Why?   29/4/2007

Is normal if a man likes a woman to show it to her. Also is normal if she is not interested to say "NO, thanks". But very often the men accept these words as "Please, try again" and continue more urgent. And finaly when the woman says emphatically NO, the men get angry.
Why, dear men? "No, thanks" mean exactly NO. And no need to look for another meaning.


2 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
papa_chubby 46 M
29  Articles
sometimes no means more than no   26/6/2006

Once of the sweetest girls I've ever met, when asked by a co-worker is she wanted a soft-drink responded NO! Later i asked her why she didnt say No thank you. She told me, she didnt want him getting any strange ideas.
Ha!


3 Comments, 81 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Dutch07 41 M
7  Articles
Amicably breakup..contradiction in termino?   1/5/2007

Do amicably break-ups exist?

Some time ago I went through the worst break-up (and yes angelitas, you may comfort me if you wish ) and got 'confronted' with good advice from firends and colleagues about amicable break-ups.

Is there such thing? What does it say about the couple breaking up? Do they still love each other maybe?

Reversely, they say love can turn to hate ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score