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"a conversation creates space for possibility and in that space miracles happen"
(O.K. I am letting it all hang out here!)
I am a very masculine,virile,told I am handsome,easy-going and always horny genuine nice guy. I am an eternal optimist and cheerful always.
I am widowed for 3 years from my one and only monogamous (yes it exists!) lover of 26 years who died in my arms from a massive heart attack. We left our wives for each other so a lot of this is as new to me as if I was a college student (;-) taking gay 102. I act and look like I am in my early 40's but am very wise with life's experiences. I have now moved on with my life and have discovered the following truths about my needs and desires.
I much prefer easy going and laid-back blue collar, military, student types as opposed to "puffed-up" egotists interested only in material things and false status. I have both and don't value either. While I also can do these, there is a life that doesn't only exist in cooking, decorating and gossiping at martini bars!
. I am definitely a caregiver (not sugar daddy-everyone in my family lives into their nineties so inheritance in a few years is not likely (:-)>>)
Like the beatles song "I just need somebody to love! I get by with a little help from my friends"(with benefits).
If you have read this far then I would like to hear from you; so let me know whats up if u r interested in me
---having a few drinks or beers and to see what comes up is cool also to see if we click if you are visiting or near washington dc we could maybe we could meet. I don't find feminine, chubby or drama types attractive-ok to talk and be friends with however.
I am discrete as I have young adult . I am an avid world traveler (looking for ?) I am pursuing a secondary residence in Fort Lauderdale area or somewhere on/near mexican, latin or south american coast.
Sorry but I cannot handle if you have druggie, alkie, serious depressed baggage- I am hiv/other negative and make sure I stay that way (test every 3 mos. also to make absolute sure)RE: this issue- I meet the hottest nicest hiv/hepC positive guys and I am upset about having to pass up as I have very serious family reponsibilities that prevent me from taking any risk at this point in my life- most of you guys rule-I am always glad to know you)
(we could c2c)
Hey man, thanks for plowing through all of this
I will not respond without a face pic or have a pic somewhere to view. I smoke on and off(am always trying to quit) don't do drugs. I like and collect red wine; romantic kissing to romantic music; dancing (esp. salsa and country slow); cuddling also.
so holler back here if you think we relate.
Yes--I defefinitely know this is a tall order--but you can catch me if you can----(;-0)>
My Ideal Person
I am extremely attracted to slim, shorter, younger & romantic and in-tact masculine guys & I am especially fond of latinos(hablo espanol). I just want someone who wants me and more than anything else hope to find a hot faithful "son"(18-40ish)who knows what he wants and needs; to have an older "dad" to take care of him perhaps til death us do part; help him become a man-if needed; be two equal true strong lovers. Open to any virile, good looking, honest, responsible, moral,strong and younger guy actually. I would like to find (or be found by) someone to hold close; to wake up in each other's arms in peace and love and pure trust. It is the best thing in the world. I had it for a very long time and now dare to want it again
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